my pregnant girlfriend just dumbed me?

You know she probably just needs space away from you. It's her hormones kicking in.. there's a 50/50 chance she'll come back to you once the baby arrives. I'm sure she'll want the daddy to be around once he is born.

I preach to young people constantly about making sure the female is on the pill. I know the boy won't be responsible and besides the rubber is not very effective anyways. Now that the horse is out of the barn you do all you can do because the fact of the matter is this:

Once the baby is born she will need to be on the pill so as to not immediately get pregnant again. If it goes sour between you she will ask for and get child support (which is equivalent to half your monthly income). This is the reality of it. Sadly she can milk you constantly IF you don't have payments in place....time will tell on this. Good luck...and keep that horse in the barn :)

Well--its her decision--she wants time--she needs time--she is in a biological change that you will never understand. So leave her alone and she will probably call in a while. You trying to talk to her will result in BAD FEELINGS--so back off--go to work--save up the money and get ready for your 18 years of child support. Think of this---she is pregnant--not married--probably never planned to have a baby--she is just as mixed up as you are. She has lots on her mind!! You two should have considered all this FIRST!! But whatever you do--leave her alone!! Give it time. Good luck.

ouch. hmm any possibility she may not have been faithful? with working two jobs and never having time for her, then her saying "until the baby comes I won't know for sure" sounds like there's more to the story. Even if not, you sound like a good person and trying to provide by working two jobs she shouldn't have left you.

maybe, but he's a crazy hormonal bitc* because she's pregnant, and she will be even after she has the baby for about 6 months. so it may not be over.

and I doubt she's seeing someone else while pregnant with your baby. >.>

but it was your choice to be unsafe and have sex.

so now you have to deal with it.

broken heart or not.

Sorry

Good Luck

Relax, It is the hormones thats all. She is questioning everything right now!

She will come back to you soon just go to the doctors appointments and as soon as the baby is here she will be all:

I love you!

do not listening to alecs that is just stupid. pregnancy does weird things to you. also working 2 jobs is great and really good of you but the time apart might be the cause of this as well. maybe she is missin u and missin the affection and it is comin out in her emotions as say doesnt want you.

good luck to you

ok i wouldnt say its over for good she probaly just overwalmed thats all shes pregnant im gueesing this wasnt a planed baby either remember she is going to go through childbirth its not that much fun so just be there for her and that will help alot

Of course not. She's pregnant with your child. She may be getting an abortion and is looking for some time apart. So talk with her and tell her how you feel.

Pregnancy makes a lot of changes scientifically and psychologically.. Changes in haromes and changes in ideas and thoughts..Don't leave her ,stand beside her and decide with her the destiny of your child..