do my bf really care for me at all ?

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ok, here is the situation. we went to a rehab to visited his Grand Pa, who had a surgery on his leg. For some reason when i stepped in the room, i feel uneasy and start to feel dizzy, i asked him to steped outside with me for few sec to get some air and water. on the hall, i passed out on the floor, just laying there for few secs and in that few secs my bf was knee down on the floor, keep tap on my face to wake me up, finally i got up and drink some water, thinking that everything is fine, i just need some water, but as soon as i got back in the room, i started to feel as sick as before, next thing i know i was almost on the floor,passed out again.,my bf and his aunt caught me and helped me to the chair. Nurses came, check if everything ok, at that point my blood pressure was low and i didnt respond to anything so they called 911. after that i recovered... the only think made me really thinking was ... at the point the nurse asked me to go to hospital for a real check up 'cause this was a situation they called " abnormal" , my bf was busted out and said " ... but it cost thousand to drive the ambulance...!" and the nurse was responed like " ... but if u dont get a check out, if it's a something, next time she wont come back to you again ..." ... at that point it was just make me embarassed and sad. feeling like he dont concern for me, but only the money. is my feeling was normal or im over reacted?

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Sounds like he really doesn't care about you. If I was passing out repeatedly in any location my husband would do whatever it took and worry about the cost later. Unless you are a drama queen and do this kind of thing for attention often I don't see why he would be so cold. Deal breaker for me. 

I dated a guy for 2 years. I had to go to the ER once. I was passing out and turning white. I ended up having a cyst on my ovaries that ruptured. I called him to take me to the hospital so I wouldn't have to call 911. He said "I'm on my way to the gym. I'll come by after I'm finished" I called my grandparents to take me. When he called me later I told him to F off. He cared more about the gym than about me. It was clear. Our relationship ended a few months later. Never recovered from that act of selfishness.

kimiko · Answer

No, what is correct for him will not be correct for you. We are all extraordinary and also you will have to recognise greater than him, what you'll be able to manage to pay for. Tell him thanks for the recommendation however you are movin' to the council apartment and afterward whilst budget arise you're going to sooner or later have your possess position!! It seems like he cares or he is a bossy form who loves to be in manage.

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm im not really sure.

If it was my girlfriend (if i had one), in that situation I would have paid any amount of money so that she is alright and is in safe hands. 

Maybe he is poor but still, if its your girlfriend then you should do anything to keep her safe.

Idk though im a real romantic guy so I would go to the extremes for her.

snorkeling_llama · Answer

If he said that *after* she said you could have died... then it's likely he's more of a money person. Otherwise, it's an honest mistake.

Next time, try drinking some juice instead of water.

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