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Does this mean i'm a bad person?
my sister moves her welfare queen friend with two kids in my 3 bedroom townhome. Now i was already living with my mom and two younger sisters. I recently bought a new tv and some nice furniture. and the sight of my sister's friend and her kids in my sofas watching my lcd is enough to make me vomit. i absolutely do not want them anywhere near me or my family, but my people feel sorry for them and really like them. everytime i see them in the house i can feel my blood pressure rise. i feel like i shouldn't have to take care of peoples mistakes and that the only people in this world i'm responsible for is my own family. Am I evil?
6 Answers
- Not a prudeLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your town home? As in ---you pay the bills? Give them a deadline to leave...there is no reason to harbor those you cannot stand. Lay down the law. You can't live in a tense environment. Otherwise, if you live under your mothers roof, you should make arrangements for your own household. Find a place of your very own and enjoy what you have earned without people you feel are mooching on it.
Source(s): No, you're not a bad person just because of this. - Pink08Lv 71 decade ago
Of course not. Yours is a normal reaction. Since it is your townhome, you never should have let strangers move in to begin with. It's always hard to get people out of your house.
You will have to talk with her and give her a deadline of a month or so to be OUT of your place. From now on, don't let anyone you disapprove of move in with you. I hope your family is not taking advantage of you either. They should help cook and clean and pay for room and board.
If you let people take advantage of you, they will. Don't be such an easy touch.
Give your guests a definite deadline and stick to it. It is your townhome and not your mother or sisters place. Be firm.
Good luck.
- 1 decade ago
no not really(or at least I don't think so) there is nothing wrong with being fed up with something or someone. I would want to use the things that I bought with MY money. So no you aren't an evil or bad person.
Source(s): my own mentality - Anonymous1 decade ago
No, you're good.
Let it out somehow (not yelling at them but in some way)
Throwing them out would be bad though
(them getting out on their own is all good though, feel free to help them do that as quick as possible)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
No, you have every right to feel that way. Is there a reason you don't like them? maybe it's a misunderstanding but I wouldn't like strangers moving in either