Question on how to deal with the new inlaws...?

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so i just found out my brother got married in vegas with this girl he met a couple of months ago. I personally dont like her or care for her, its my brothers life however i once told him that i cared and only wanted the best for him...first of all, shes older than him...second..she doesnt really have a job and im pretty sure she married him to be accomodated by him.... Now im just wondering how I can be tolerable with her in case we ever cross ways such at family gatherings and such.... If i ignore her i know my brother will be bothered...he does however know that i dont like her... she doesnt like me either and since the beginning made no efforts to be liked....(hence my dislike of her) ....i truly feel shes superficial and interested...but he doesnt see that. So how do i deal with it? anybody in the same situation?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well..Seems like your in a sticky situation! =/ I would just hate it sooooo bad on the inside...But you can't let your brother know you really don't like her..unless she goes too far (you know what I mean), or if another family member notices what your talking about, Then that could be a situation that you and your family could sit down, and tell your brother. But tell him that all of you just want him to be happy and all of you just want the best for him, and what will keep him safe! :D

CoeyG · Answer

Sounds to me as if you're jealous, which is probably why she doesn't like you.  She didn't marry YOU, she married your brother.  Your brother has every right to be married to whomever HE chooses to be married to, you don't have the right to dictate his choices to him.  The fact that you don't like her and obviously don't want to get along with her for your brother's sake is YOUR problem.  You're obviously very immature and full of yourself.

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