I hate sex with my husband, can I ever enjoy it again?

This is a pretty serious issue, and you should seek counseling with your husband.

First, you don't say how old your youngest child is. I suspect that he or she isn't all that old. Not being in the mood for sex after having a baby is normal and sometimes it takes a year or more for your hormones to level out and your sex drive to return (it's longer if you are breast feeding). It's perfectly normal and a lot of couples go through this after adding a child or children to their family. I am also suspecting that you have three younger children who take a lot of energy and you are too tired for sex. If you are working outside the home and then have to come home and do all the household chores and take care of the kids, you are going to be even more tired. Kids, especially needy and by the end of the day there is nothing left of yourself to give to your husband because you have been giving all day. Have your husband help out more with things in the home and with the kids if you find you are doing most of anything. Most men are more than happy to do a load of laundry or wash the dinner dishes if it means that it will preserve some of his wife's energy to put into sex. Take a nap when your kids are napping. Summer is coming up, see if you can find a teenager in the neighborhood to come help you a couple days a week do things around the house for a few dollars or to babysit where you can take a nap.

The next time you have sex and he does not give you the "O" and he just rolls off, use your hand to do it. He of course will ask what you are doing and you tell the truth, he does not satisfy you and you must find satisfaction elsewhere. If he is a typical man, telling him he does not satisfy his woman will hurt his ego to the max. You might also hint that your hand is not the only way you get satisfied. You might get a vibrator so he thinks you are doing it with him not around at all.

Second thing. If you have the money, go get the implants. It is your body, not his. If you have to sell off some stuff, such as your wedding ring, that just might get his attention.

no one should tell you what to do . i also want implants for same reason.

but him telling u no should in a way be compliment. that e likes yu the way yo are

but if he doesn't even listen to you? well try telling him you feel used because your getting no enjoyment out of it wat so ever,and you know hes only trying to pleasue him self. Talk to him about it once more and say you feel used. say what you really feel. ten i he just keeps dong this refuse to have sex with him. he will soon get the idea that somethings up and the he might just listen.. !!! good lucks

why don't you just take control of the situation? during sex you should be able to move your body to please yourself and if it gets to the point where you think hes gonna get there than back off and make him wait he has to be in it for you to not just so he gets off and you get nothing. as for you not feeling good about your body why don't you work out a little to try and build muscle or something and maybe buy an outfit you think you would look sexy in that would allow you to e confident enough not to think about your so called body issues.

Sex with friend's sister?

Not until one of you are willing to change. It appears he is set in his ways so your the one left to make the changes. Since you hate to have sex with him, then you need to talk with a plastic surgeon and do what it takes to make you feel sexy and desirable. If he doesn't like it, tough, many others will.

Not sure what to say if he is unwilling to try something different to satisfy you. Seems like he feels like your only role in sex is to be a hole for him to enjoy until he is done. That kind of approach usually does not work in a marriage.

Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you no longer desire sex and it's because he's being so insensitive about your needs. Most men - granted, not all - will not enjoy sex if they know you aren't having fun - part of the fantasy for them is pleasing their partner. If he doesn't come around, please yourself around him. Let him walk in on you "taking care" of yourself, and see how he reacts. Good luck!

First off, you "DON'T" need implants. Secondly, I think it's sad your husband has a lack of respect for you. Tell him marriage isn't about "I", but it's about "us"!