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we're friends with benefit, how can i tell him that i like him more than a friend?
ever since my 19th birthday in september, one of my guy friends and i experienced a really hot make out, something that wasn't suppose to happen but did. from than we decided to become "friends with benefits". once a week, i'd go to his house and we'd just chill. like watch a movie, cuddle, have a make out here and there.. but nothing has gone. well in the beginning everything happened so fast. but after october, things started to just slow down and we both became comfortable with each other.
and this guy, i really like him. that's why im able to do almost everything with him. i know he likes me too. but he doesn't know what he wants. i don't know if he wants to date me (even though he said he wants to one night.. but he was drunk). he'll say he misses me if we don't see each other for a few weeks. he'll say he's happy being with him. he makes time to actually spend time with me.
but why doesn't he want to make it official and just date me? how can i show, instead of tell, him that im really happy with him and that i want to make things official????
11 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
guys are like that. sometimes they just want a girl to fool around with that they know and are friends with. i have a really similar prob, but im younger and mine im kinda a bad person. but yea just ask him "do you think there could ever be a you and me?like 2gather?" and see what he says. hope i helped can you please help me?? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Am8yc...
- 1 decade ago
These situations can be really difficult, especially when one person wants something more than the other person. It sounds like he definitely likes you as a friend but in order for you to know if he wants something more you will need to ask him if he wants something more or tell him that you do.
It is possible that he does want something more but isn't sure if you do. It's also possible that he likes you as a friend but still enjoys the more intimate things with you as well.
The important thing is that if you want something more and he doesn't you MUST be aware of this. If this is the case you might be better ending the benefits. No matter what though DO NOT think that if you keep providing benefits he will change his mind. The only thing that will happen if you do this is that you will keep being disappointed. Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
Try to be with him more, hold his hand, invite him to do stuff with you, plant a small kiss on his forehead or the tip of his nose, use his chest as your pillow, maybe play with his hand. Ask for hugs often and tell him you feel safer when he is around and that your happier when your with him and he should get the idea. If that dosent work just tell him you like him alot and that you want to be more than just FWB's.
- notyou311Lv 71 decade ago
You made a huge mistake. You let him use you sexually with no strings attached. He has zero respect for you at this point.
Someone always gets hurt when they do the FWB. It never works.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Your "friends with benefits" after that you can't expect a guy to want to commit to a relationship if he can get affection/love without giving anything in return.
- 1 decade ago
he said he wanted to date you when he was drunk he wants to date you all alcohol is is an excuse to say what you really mean without people saying anything about it just straight up ask him if he says no you still have him it shouldn't take anything away from what you have unless you make it
- 1 decade ago
i would just tell him i love him and that i always have and think that this could go further and ask how he feels i guess lol
Source(s): me! - 1 decade ago
u dont tell him cuz hes not goin to want u in that way. u find a guy that want u 4 u n not wat ur givin lol. goooood luck sweetie
Source(s): been there done that