Is this fair????Did i do the right thing?

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I love a girl very much.....i agree that i am a little kiddish....but she told me to change my behavior and be manly....i tried...but no use....others say that i am a very honest and helpful...and she took advantage of that....she used me to get whatever she wanted....and after getting everything,she told that we were just friends.....i immedietly i broke up with her....but now i miss her alot!!! plz help.....

Candi C · Accepted Answer

Don't let some greedy girl get you down like that. She doesn't deserve you. there's alot of people out there that are big kids at heart. She shouldn't try to change you. If she really liked you then it wouldn't matter how you act (to and extent) Girls like mature guys because they don't have to feel like they have to raise a child. There are alot of girls out there so don't give up and stay true to yourself. Good luck

Tomb Raider · Answer

Yes you did the right thing,she was just using you to take advantage of you and get what she wanted.Who wants to be used in the first place? There are a ton of girls out there that wouldn't do this.Find another girl that you like and don't give in to buying her things and being used.Tomb Raider.

Michelle H · Answer

It's hard when you really like someone and they disappoint you like that, but it's clear she didn't accept you for who you are, and still took advantage of you.  Sucks to be her.  You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who values you for who you really are.  In the meantime, just keep yourself really busy, and refrain from contacting her.  That will only keep the wounds open.  The more time away from her, the less you will hurt.

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Is this fair????Did i do the right thing?

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