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How can i meet other guys to get over my hurtful boyfriend?

I have been on and off with my boyfriend (who happens to be my bestfriend also) for about 5 months now. We were amazing friends before and we both split up with our ex's so it happened naturally. We are much better as friends, and although i do love him as a friend, he is a terrible boyfriend. I am desperate to change my feelings towards him, as we are in a pickle. He isn't as into me as i am to him, so i am desperate to move on. He has admitted he will never love me as more than a friend, and ontop of that his sex drive is crazily low. Is there a way i can get over him? Or a way i could meet people other than clubbing (they seem after one thing and im not like that!). I'm a little too old for myspace too! (21) so i don't want to start stalking people on there!

Thankyou :)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I am trying to be friends with my ex. we live together, but he is seeing some one else. it is so hard because i still love him and he obviously doesnt feel the same. i think to get over some one you have to go out with your friends take up new things. i know it is very hard i am trying to do any thing at this stage.everyu one tells me to forgethim. but i cant just like you prolly cant. people cant switch there feelings off. i turely believe you wont be able to get rid of your feeling till you dont see him for a while. move on and start to be happy agin. then go back and those feelings may still be there but it wont huirt as much. i wish i could follow my own advice to lol

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Oh lady i do know what you imply im going notion the identical factor...I are aware of it hurts and im sorry ...I understand that proper now this will likely look difficult to do however simply transfer on from him dont even hang around with him anymore if he makes you suppose this manner ...You can nonetheless be his buddy however simply deliver your self and him a few house ...Good good fortune .

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