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Girl trouble and i need advice?

My girlfriend and i have been playing xbox with each other for a while now and i found she was being talked to by other boy to send her, her facebook and email adddress so he could see a picture of her. I fetl quite jealous of this so told her that this wasnt to happen again or its over because shes done this with several boys before on xbox live.

Now i find out that she has added him again and started talking again. what do i do?

ive been with this girl for a year now and like her for many months before. im so close to her emotionally and im really stuck for help. ive told her it doesnt seem like she cares about my feelings, butthen re adds them again. please give me advice, i love this girl with all my heart. i need help. i dont want to leave her.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    You don't love her, She sounds like something you just want to own and control.

    It might sound harsh but I'm being honest for your own good with all the you can only talk to me and nobody else crap your making her do you seem to me like a complete psycho.

    If she loves you too then she will want to be with you and you can trust her to talk to other people but you can't force her to love you.

  • 1 decade ago

    have you ever heard the quote 'if you love something, let it go. if it comes back it was meant to be.'

    maybe this isnt what you want to hear but i doesnt sound like your girlfriends giving you the attention you deserve. you sound like a really sweet boy and a good boyfriend too so you shouldnt let anyone make you feel this way.

    i have a feeling your probably still pretty young.. i am too. and what ive learned from that is you cant just settle for someone that continuously keeps hurting you, especially after youve given her more chances and told her how you feel too. another quote 'whats good is great, whats bad only make you stronger' learn from it dont let people push all over you when you can do better.

    now heres my question for you.. do you truly believe you deserve better?

    if you can answer that.. then thats where your heart is and thats what you need to do.

    good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    The best advice I can give as a woman--a particularly flirtatious woman--is to trust her. If she loves you, which I assume she does, as she's still with you, then trusting her is the best thing you can do.

    Also, she might be lashing out at you. If you say "This is never to happen again or I'm leaving you", she might be doing it just to spite you; women are vengeful that way. I know I would be. If you're going to leave her because of that, she might not think you're worth it anymore. The very best thing you can do is trust her. Jealousy can kill a relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    you sound very insecure. dont tell your girlfriend what to do. she will do the exact opposite and eventually dump you cos you are being a pain in the we know what. so what if you love her. just because you love her she is not allowed to have friends? oh, by the way, you told her that if she does it again it is over ... well, she did it again, now what ... she is waiting for you to dump her ... arent you going to look the walkover when you dont dump her. you have left the door wide open for her to do other stuff cos she knows that you dont follow through with your threats. on the other hand, maybe she actually did do it cos she wants you to dump her, cos she had enough of your jealousy. now what? hmm, no wonder you are insecure.

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  • 1 decade ago

    she is going to love u no matter what jealousy gets u no way so just talk to her see how she feels about all of this and that's all i could say rally so talk to her

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    thats not right of her to do, talk to her about it again but mean it this time. No more mister nice guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    try explaining to her how much you care about her & how much you love her. also tell her that if she really cares about you & wants to be with you then she will stop talking to those boys.

    this might work

    it happened to me before but with a boyfriend.

    hope it helps!

  • 1 decade ago

    Try hitting her.

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