i'm deathly afraid of trusting another man. how do you know when/who to trust again?

You let go one day at a time as you see the new man you are with is trustworthy. After being treated so horribly you will have trust issues for awhile but if this man is a good one you will know it because you have been there and know the signs. Good luck.

Life is full of new beginnings. what that means that someone else will come and someone else may follow but you are always willing to put in trust. When you love, that person should bring the best out of you, in love and your trust becomes unquestionable.

Wow that really sucks, sometimes you can tell by sign if you give me the month day and year of birth I could do his birth chart, or if you have the money you could hire a private investigator. Or you can tell him what you went through and tell him you have some insecurities that you need to work through and that you hope he can be understanding of this.

not fair to one person accountable for the actions of another. if u r seeing a good man then just be with him. there r no guarantees in life. we could only hope the person we're with is honest and loving

Ann,

Take your time with this new relationship. Don't rush. Pay attention to red flags and don't put your head in the sand when you see them. That's how.

You either get over it or never have a healthy relationship. Your choice, good luck.

u never judge a book by the same cover =]]