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Wedding registry questions, for MARRIED people?

I am working on the registry for the wedding.

Registry etiquette says to have items in various price ranges for everyone to have options and than to have double the items as your have guests. This is kinda hard, because that's like 400 items! I don't want to look greedy or ridiculous for adding items.

I am not expecting anyone to buy me gifts. If they do that's awesome and we would appreciate anything they wish to give us, on our registry or not.

So, with all of that my actual question is:

After you got married, was there anything on your registry that you didn't get? Or wished that you had registered for? Or even bought for yourself after wards that proved to be extremely useful?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Here's the great thing about registries: most offer you a discount on the stuff left on the list after your wedding date so its not a bad idea to put any/every-thing you might like on the list. So long as there are a variety of price ranges, its really no big deal how many items you add.

    Honestly, I look at the price ranges of peoples registries to determine if the list is reasonable or unreasonable, not the # of items on the list.

    I actually had my main registry at Macy's and they did a rewards program where we got a giftcard after the wedding based on a percentage of what people spent on our registry items so I used that giftcard with my 10% "after the wedding" discount to buy a few things we hadn't gotten -- I got a flour sifter (I love to bake), a new teapot, and a set of "everyday" dishes that nobody had purchased off the registry. I really didn't "need" any of the other items that were left, but would have happily used them if anyone had bought them for us.

  • 1 decade ago

    We got around 10 per cent of the stuff on our registry... Many old school types will just get you a crystal candy dish anyway. We got 6. lol

    It's nice to have a variety of prices of things- but 400 items seems like a LOT. You can also register for charities, which is nice! Or people can give money for you to spend on your honeymoon at honeymoonwishes.com

    It's easiest to register for like cups and linens and stuff like that. It was nice to not have to buy all that stuff after the wedding. I think the thing we use the most that we registered for is a huge wok- I cook everything in it. Also we registered for wine- which turned out to be a good decision because after the wedding we felt like we had scrimp, so we couldn't afford good wine.

    Don't worry about looking greedy- I doubt anybody will be thinking that. Personally, I really appreciate it when couples make it easy for you and give you lots of choices of what to get them! That way you know your gift won't end up on craigslist or at the thrift store :)

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    We got married 43 yrs ago, and didn't do the registry thing at all. My boss and his wife gave us a trivet to put under hot dishes on the table. At first we thought it was a stupid gift. But we are still using it and when we were raising our children, we used it almost every day.

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  • 1 decade ago

    We got a four-in-one cooker. It has a grill, griddle, waffle maker, and sandwich press. We used it at least once a day when we first got married and still use it a few times a month. I wish I would have asked for a crock pot with a timer on it (so it will put itself on warm after a certain amount of time...)

  • It wasn't something I didn't get for my wedding, it was a Christmas gift from my husband. It was a toaster oven and when I opened it I thought why the heck did he get me this. It turned out we used it so much mainly for baking small items in the summer time to avoid heating up the house that we had to replace it.

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