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We've been trying to conceive but I might lose my job?!?

We've been trying since September with no luck. Last month, my job started laying-off. I mentioned to my hubby that I might want to wait to see what happens with my job before trying again. He doesn't agree. I earn half of the household income, and I'm already concerned about the expense of having a child! I would hate to be pregnant and unemployed. We just bought a house and we both have many expenses (student loans, car payments, credit card debt, etc.). I'm the more responsible one in the relationship. I pay the bills, he thinks everything will work itself out. If you were in this situation, would you put off having a child?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I almost didn't start my new job because I thought I was going to get pregnant, and I would be leaving soon. Well that was 2 years ago, and haven't conceived since. It's taken us so far 3 years, it's not as easy as it seem, especially if you've been at it since September. Looks like it's gonna take you a while too, You might want to continue to try, just in case it takes years

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with Tina 100%. Me and my fiance started TTC before marriage, because what if we found out it would take over a year or more to conceive? We are also getting into a new home with a lot of expenses. When it comes down to it, there just never is a "good time" to have a baby. You either want family, or you don't. But if don't feel ready for family, then you should definitely wait!

  • Tina
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Personally no, I would not hold off on having a child based off "what ifs" because I would end up talking myself out of having a child. Weigh out the pros and cons. Like how old are you? If you are in your early 20s then you can wait a couple of years before starting a family. Since you are not married and if you do get laid off you will be approved for W.I.C. and other government aids if you chose to take that route. It is possible and if you want a baby bad enough you can have one. Items are cheap off Craigslist and breastfeeding is free so you do have options.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think that you should leave it in the lords hands i am not really religious but if you feel in the "mood" go for it and if you end up pregnant then it was meant to be

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  • g a
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Lets see Baby + 2 = welfare. Lets wait if it happens in the future it is meant to be there is no rush !!!!!

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