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a friend of mines,told me that she hate having sex with her husband,what should i tell her!!!!?

she said she enjoy him...that she love him,also love his sense of humor,she love thier date nite,and all that good stuff,but when it come down to sex..she not with it..P.S.she said the sex aint bad!!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    She needs to talk to him about it. Maybe she's just one of those women who don't enjoy sex. Or maybe she has a hormonal problem that makes her want it less and enjoy it less. I would also tell her to see a dr. They can run some tests to find out what is going on and maybe prescribe a medicine for her to take so she can enjoy sex more. Good luck

    Source(s): Happily married 7 years with 3 beautiful children =D
  • Memory
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    If she doesn't think the sex bad, then she must have some hang ups about sex.

    Perhaps she can't get off, that's why she doesn't like it. She should try new things, make it exciting. If her husband loves her, he won't mind helping her reach the big O.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't say anything & change the subject when she brings it up again. This is for your friend to sort out & I know I sound like a prude for saying this but I really wish spouses didn't trash talk about their sex lives. I mean you're not Dr. Ruth & they should have more respect for their spouse than to air that kind of dirty laundry.

  • 1 decade ago

    She should get a divorce lawyer, because no man will live with a woman like that. No woman is worth giving up sex for.

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  • Sue C
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    She did nothing but sing his praises about most everything about him, even stated the sex isn't bad! How can she then turn around & state she hates having sex with him! Something sounds a bit mixed up with the things she says & she contradicts herself at times. I'd tell her that's something she's going to have to work out on her own, you can't help her with that one. She has to fix that herself & figure out why she hates it so badly when she already stated "the sex ain't bad"...good luck to her...:)

  • 1 decade ago

    There's nothing you can tell her.It's her problem and she has to work it out.She must not be attracted to him any more or she could have some kind of medical imbalance that makes her lose her sex drive.

  • 1 decade ago

    Something she needs to discuss with him. she can't pretend forever.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You tell her nothing. You are not part of their marriage.

  • 1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Show her how to do it with him....with him!

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