I'm a picky eater and my boyfriend takes it personally.?

He either needs to learn your tastes to the extent he can cook something you enjoy eating or stop insisting on cooking for you.

Grilled cheese is good with just cheese and bread and basil is kinda out there. If he wanted to try it, he could have added it to his and then asked you to taste it to see if it was something you liked and would be interested in eating the next time he made you grilled cheese.

I like grilled onions on grilled cheese, but it's not something I would assume everyone else would like and I definitely wouldn't throw a hissy fit if I put them on someones sandwich without asking them and they didn't like it.

Cooking for you as a way of showing that he cares for you or loves you is great. Insisting that he cook for you and getting an attitude about you not liking some random thing he throws together when he knows you're picky is controlling BS.

I don't like much that my husband cooks. He's not a very good cook even though he seems to think he's some top notch chef BUT I do appreciate the fact that he spent the time cooking for me and that he put the time and effort into doing something just for me and I eat it and he'll NEVER know that I'm struggling to eat it. He may be doing just that once in awhile with things you make and eating things only out of love for you.... you never know.

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you sound like me..LOL

my husband is the same, he loves to cook for me but i dont always love the spices and seasonings that he adds, and he also gets upset when i dont want to taste his cooking..LOL

i love my simple food especially bread & he loves to explore all kinds of food..

in time he's learnt not to mess with my food, as i have with his..LOL

and we've agreed to leave it at that, because there are also plenty of other food that we both love, that we can share together, that also keeps the peace..

so dont worry too much.. its just food..=)

I think you should break up now because you don't seem to have much in common. Also you may try to loosen up a little because you seem judgemental and its ok to have opinions but you need to realize other people also may have theirs and it won't always be the same as yours.

It sounds like you guys are going to have big problems over a what should be a non issue. Have you ever considered that you may not be right for each other?

Tell him you insist and demand on cooking your own food. Remind him how bitchy you can get about this.

Here's what I do. When I cook, I make what want and enjoy it. When my wife cooks something I don't like, I smile thank her and bloody well eat it. Maybe everything you do for him is perfect. Or, maybe he just isn't as arrogant.

its not your fault he sucks as a cook

as long as you regularly and frequently dine on my tube steak, honey, the rest of your diet is none of my effing business.