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How should I go about doing this (Kinda long)?

Alright, I have been reading a lot of the questions and answerd on here, most of them are depressing so I wdecided I should ask my own. (First to you guys who say you don't like independent women, you are missing out on a lot!)

I work with my best friend, I Like him Probably more than I should And I am almost positive that he does too, It would be great if you could confirm his for me... We men a year and some months ago, Started out as friends, The poor guy got to listen to me complain about my boyfriend at the time, my family problems, how much I hated my job (I am an aircraft hydraulics and pneumatics mechanic) Etc. and he actually listened to everything I said. I always thought that when we were going out to mivies, or to eat we were just going out as friends, and somewhere in the mess, I started to fall for him (Oh no! :) ) I Deployed (Oh yeah, Im in the military too) And when I came home He would text me back and forth literally all day, We hung out a few more times, I went back to his apartment and we watched the lord of the rings... Cuddled on the couch EtC. I really like him, we are going to see a movie tommorow, And I really wanted to know (MY actual question... holy crap) How should I go about letting him know I want to be more than friends. I mean something that is not cliche and annoying :)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Thx for askin this question. When u give him a hug or u know whenever u cuddle next to him whatever just as ur pulling away do it slowly and look at him and look like ur not pulling ur head completely away. Just think about the notion of it, thats all that u need to know, its his job to get the rest, and i highly doubt any guy wouldn't get this kind of hint, let me say it one more time so tht there is no confusion, hug and pull away slowly, hold on to him if he tries to just act like it was a basic hug, just a slight tug, and look straight at him, and don't be afraid to be close to him, he should see this and understand, if he seems confused close ur eyes, cuz even if it doesn't work, u can play it off as just a sad moment, there is no embarrassing moments. Like if a guy were to propose and the girl tell him to get up and eat. it should most def work. If he kisses u, then u know he likes u, and he will prob ask u to a date or something, long as u don't look like ur appalled, u gotta seem happy at the end or smile or something. and its ok, dont turn ur head and take a break or whatever it is ive seen girls do. sorry for the lengthy message its just its all in body language one wrong footing and its all messed up. not literally so don't stress out.

    Source(s): MANY a past experience and people watching and very smart (iq=167)
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