when wife show here lack interest in bed ,what does its mean...?

it could mean many things, it could be a health issue or hormonal imbalance depending on her age, and it is something you need to discuss with her in a nice way, and consider her feelings, it may not be something she is aware of.

Do you make a big deal out of it and try to pressure her into it? That is a turn off! Try spending time with her without sex involved. When will men learn that women are turned on in their head first? Women need to have conversations with you not based on sex. You have to be trustworthy. No trust? No sex. Intimacy such as holding her and cuddling without doing anything sexual helps build trust. Be a friend besides being a lover. Be a good listener. Get away from the usual routine, change the atmosphere, focus on fun or playfulness, lighten up. Laughter is a turn on for a lot of women. The main point I am making is that when sex becomes the center of everything and feels like a demand or have to, it is the biggest turn off ever. So drop it for awhile and let her come to you when she sees you are not pushy and that you will accept her for who she is unconditionly without your own selfish expectations and be patient it may take awhile. Communication and lots of it is the key! Clear up any old anger or trust issues. Ask her what you are doing wrong, don't argue about it, be smart and listen then take action to do what she wants to fix it. Above pratice good hygiene

I won't claim to be an expert but this question has a pretty obvious answer; you guys have some kind of a problem. Problems inside the bedroom reflect problems outside of the bedroom. This problem could be anything. It could be her or it could be you or it could be both of you. I won't give any examples because I don't want to put ideas in your head and make you worry but the problem could really be anything. Sit down and talk it out with her to find out what is going on through her head and don't believe her if she says nothing is wrong. SOMETHING is wrong or you wouldn't be having this problem. Every problem has a cause but every problem also has a solution.

The only problem I can tell you I see here is that you're lacking communication with your wife, otherwise, you wouldn't be here on Yahoo! Answers. Your sex problem might have a serious cause or might not really be anything to worry about (sorry, but I kind of doubt it. I would be freaking out if my wife lost interest in bed with me). Anyway, talk to her. It is really important to know how each person feels in a relationship (and especially a marriage).

When's the last time you did something for her or made her life a little easier? Take her somewhere like Hawaii or on a cruise. Do some housework, clean the effing house. If she works 8 hours and then has to come home to a pig sty, it just wears a woman down over time. All she does is pick up after you. Women don't do housework because they like it, they do it because their husbands won't. Hire a maid for her. Take her to a spa and both of you get massaged and relaxed and IN THE MOOD!

It could be a number of things. Depending on what birth control she takes...for instance the shot can be a sex downer compared to the pill. You also have to remember that women don't get turned on like men do it's more mental. Maybe try different times in the day not just sticking to the night. The biggest advice I can give you is to ask her! It's your wife so talk to her about it.

Women's bodies are built differently then men. Men tend to get turned on faster then women. It takes time for women, all women need to first get comfortable, and what ever you do they have to feel relaxed. Do not feel bad, sometimes they tend to feel tired, or that it can be the same routine as like brushing your teeth. You know when I got married, it is all exciting but as time goes so does the sex. But as I got to know him better we love each other no matter what. Try to have sex not like every single day, have it from time to time and that way it won't be that boring. It does not mean she is not interested, it has alot to do with hormones, being tired or stress. I am not sure if you guys exercise, but that can also help the sex life. Oh yeah have her eat chocolate, that can help :-)However talk to her and see what she says, and believe me it would help you feel better when you express your feelings. Good luck

One of the following is your answer. No one will be able to know which one, but you and her. She is either tired and needs a break from household chores and children, she is depressed, she is too busy to think about sex, you no longer turn her on, you no longer satisfy her, she is emotionally unhappy, she is ill, she no longer wants to get pregnant, she has just lost interest due to hormone changes.

Try a nice vaction for you and her alone. If that does not spark it up, the two of you may need marriage counseling, or a visit to her doctor.

It can definitely mean a number of things. Age, Wight, Loss of interest in her self, loss of interest in you. The best way to find out id to ask her. There are so many motors that make a wife run that when 1 small things become her focal point of herself she tends to feel self conscious and unlovable.

It means that after two years that intense chemistry is physiologically not as intense. As much as we all would like it to, it just doesn't remain as strong. Also, she has probably realized how much work it requires to work, or be home with the kids and still do most of the shopping, cooking, cleaning, taking kids to appointments etc. If you have kids, she probably is the one who does most of the work taking care of them and their needs. All moms are tired.She's probably tired most of the time. You probably don't spend a lot of time telling her how special she is or she telling you either.

I'm not blaming you, really. It's just how I see most couples seem to evolve in their marriages. Take her on a date. You really need to plan a date and sex nite. It's hard to focus on each other if there are kids, but you must make alone time a priority. Good luck, really.

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Maybe she is wanting some attention that is not related to sex. Give her a massage find the stressed muscles on her back and make them better, then when your done get up and get something to drink. Let her know sex isn't the only thing on your mind. That your true connection is not when you are having sex and maybe she will feel more connected to you when your not having sex. Emotional connection is the important motivator for women to want to have sex when they are married. A foot massage wont hurt nothing either.Lol

It could mean alot. Honestly the best way to know exactly what is to just confront her about it and ask. As a women It could be her hormones, stress, or just the need to try something new and different. Regardless instead of wasting time on something that it might be just ask her and that way you know what to work on. Good Luck :D