What do you think working and non working moms? Did I over react?

personally I think you are just going through the "getting back to work blues"

It can be so hard getting back to work after a baby and having to deal with all the cr*p a job brings and you can feel sometimes that some work people are taking the pip out of you.

I have read your post and I really think that you are taking people too literally. You are working and you are at work and that is how they are treating you. I think maybe you think they are going to treat you different as they should know you have a young baby and are back after maternity leave.....business people do not think like this, they dont care whether you have a child and are back after maternity leave they just want their reports done and that is it.

What I would do is speak to them and tell them that you are back after having a baby and just to ease up a little or even speak to the person above and say to them it is worrying you and tell them how you feel. They have to be supportive as you are just back to work and have a young baby.

I know this is how I would conduct a business.

I tell you what you are doing so great back at work after having your baby so bigging it up to you hun for that and well done.

Talking is the key and letting them know what is what.

good luck although you wont need it.

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Firstly, you need to get your hormone level checked if they are still out of whack after 13 months. Secondly, stop making excuses for your alleged poor work performance - it's not professional. Take a good hard look at your work and take the criticism constructively- is there anything you can do to improve your performance? Be honest!

As far as I know, we only go around once. You are unhappy at your job and want to be at home with your child. So take a look at your budget and see if there is a way for you to manage that.

Have a really hard look at your budget and find some way to stay home, most of us really can find a way. You want to be at home so make it happen.

work part time if money is short ,

you need to be at home with your baby if you are breastfeeding , he is your baby and your work colleagues just want you to work, they are not remotely interested about your hormones ,post depression or any other excuses you have for your work

you are not going to like my answer but i think you should be home with your baby

so one lady has never had a child , big deal i have three children and stayed at hormonewhen they were babies

childminders and nursery workers are not so gentle with other peoples cchildrenas they are with their own

sorry hun but if your hormones are playing up which is unlikely if your baby is 13 months old now , you are just making a lame excuse

people are less likely to hand their car keys to a stranger than their baby

I hate to tell you, but if you are fired for cause- unable to work as directed, etc, you will be unable to collect unemployment. So much for being able to stay home and still get paid...

But maybe I'm not the best person to answer this question. I looked forward to going back to work after each of my three kids were born. Don't get me wrong, I love my kids, but they aren't my whole life. I like my job. I like my workplace. I enjoy working with numbers and budgets and everything like that. If I had to stay home with my kids, I'd be insane. I love them, but I don't want to be with them 24-7.