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Is it proper and/or common etiquette for the wedding party to bring dates to the rehearsal dinner?

If so, who pays for their meals?

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  • M S
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Absolutely, dates should be included at the rehearsal dinner, and their meals are paid for by the host

    of the dinner, same as those in the actual bridal party. At my wedding, my MOH's husband

    could not come in time for the rehearsal, so her Mom came and was her "date!" Her hubby and dad arrived in time for the actual wedding the next day. Worked for me, as I liked her mom and her first hubby was a real pill. ( I was her MOH for both of her weddings.)

  • Kelly
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    First, whomever is hosting the rehearsal dinner pays for everyone.

    This "traditionally" is hosted by the grooms family, but it can also be the brides family and the couple themselves.

    It is in good taste and manners to invite the significant other to the rehearsal dinner. Significant other being a spouse, engaged, live together or otherwise long term. It is not necessary to extend the invitation to a fling or flavor of the month. The invite also doesn't have to extend to their children, unless their children are part of the wedding party.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    After the practice session, ______ will probably be treating us to dinner at ______. This would possibly not incorporate spouses and companions, simply the individuals within the marriage ceremony get together. I wish this would possibly not be a trouble for you? For so much dinner invites, the "couples ought to be invited as a pair" rule might practice. But on this case the dinner is secondary to the practice session. You are feeding individuals to make up for preserving them clear of residence for the night time doing the practice session, no longer giving a dinner get together, so the dinner get together regulations do not practice. The practice session dinner as Grand Occasion had its origins again in days while (a million) the bride's loved ones hosted, paid for, and regulated the marriage ceremony parties and (two) out of towners had been much more likely to be anybody's condo visitor than to stick at a motel. For the groom's loved ones to supply a massive dinner for all of the attendants plus companions, together with a excellent the various out of the city visitors, was once at the moment the way in which that the groom's loved ones helped with the marriage ceremony. Instead of procuring the cake and plant life (for illustration) as they do now, they might get all the ones individuals out from underfoot for an afternoon, feed and entertain the complete mob, giving the bride's loved ones and the more than a few hosts of houseguests, a few blessed respite. In latest instances, so much couples select a extra modest practice session dinner with extra involvement of the groom's loved ones in making plans and procuring the marriage ceremony itself. out of towners

  • 1 decade ago

    The guests are guests, meaning that they are the guests of a host, and the host provides their refreshments. If the hosts wish to host a dinner which is principles only, then they may do so. If the hosts also invite the spouses of the principles, that is kind but not required. If the hosts go so far as to allow principles to bring a not-so-significant other, then they are kind indeed.

    A guest does not have the authority to extend invitations to other guests. Only the hosts have the authority to invite your date. If your hosts don't ask if they should invite someone for you, then you ought not to volunteer any names unless it is the name of a very significant other that the hosts are not aware of.

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  • Blunt
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Yes, it is proper etiquette and in good form for members of the wedding party to attend the rehearsal dinner with their significant other, regardless of their marital status, particularly if there is travel involved. Out of town guests, minister and the parents of flower girls and page boys should also be invited to the RD..

    The bride, groom or whomever is hosting the rehearsal dinner pay for everyone's meal.

    Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    There's no set rule on this, and it's always at the discretion of whoever is hosting the event, since this is the person paying. In most cases, significant others would be invited, but not a more casual date, especially if it's a larger group. I'd ask the bride, or else ask the bride who you should ask.

  • 1 decade ago

    The person paying

    It's assume that if you are dating someone you will bring them to the rehearsal dinner

    It's not proper to bring someone you been out with a few times

    You understand the different

  • 1 decade ago

    At my rehersal dinner we invited everyone and their dates. It is in good form. The host should pay for everyone...i know it sucks, but it's the way it is:)

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