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Sex is almost impossible x.x?
Before I even start, I just want to point out that we're both 18, so no underage nonsense please. My boyfriend and I have been progressively getting closer as a couple, and have tried to have sex a few times, unfortunately, its just not working out. We're both virgins, so I realize that might affect it somehow. Some of the problem seems to be that the condoms he bought seem to be too small. It takes forever to get one on, it rides up, plus it seems to constrict bloodflow a bit making him not as hard as before he put on a condom. The first time we attempted wetness seemed to be a problem, but I was nervous, and so was he. Since then the condom deal has been the issue I think. I'm not sure if he realizes they're too small, but he hasn't gotten new ones yet, and I'm too embarrassed to bring up the subject of buying some personal lubricant to make it easier. Does anyone have any suggestions to make this whole process a little easier on the both of us?
At one point in time HE suggested an extra lubricant to make things easier, but I'm not sure how I should bring up the idea again. >.<
6 Answers
- Experto CredoLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
You cannot be embarrassed to discuss ANYTHING sexual, whether he wants to try anal sex with you (and you have the right to politely refuse), or he wants to be tied down or that the condoms are just not working.
The best thing to do is that BOTH of you go to the drug store and discuss the potential merits of the condoms. Although he may be askd to buy them, YOU have a say in what he gets, as it is your pleasure as well.
As to lubircation, that can also be discussed, as you need one that will not destroy or compromise the integrity of the condom
- 1 decade ago
The condoms are too small? Hell, that's an ego booster right there. That will probably make him feel a whole lot better about buying bigger condoms.
Source(s): good luck ;) - 1 decade ago
Honey, if YOU can't go to the store and buy some Magnum size condoms, and if YOU can't go to the store and buy some Astroglide------well, you're not mature enough to be having sex.
You don't bring up the subject again, you go to the store and get what you want.
Sheesh.
By the way, my husband loved it when I brought home the Magnums.
- Dan HLv 71 decade ago
Go buy large size condoms and some lube then try again. There's no reason to be embarrassed. If you can get naked together you can talk about what you want to do.
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- 1 decade ago
in all honesty, telling him that the condoms are too small will probably boost his ego and make him more likely to be able to engage
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Im a mom myself. i think of it has to do with your interior adjustments using fact when you have a baby your physique in the interior isnt the comparable anymore and probably even in the exterior. i think of its a topic you need to adress with your healthcare expert and notice what you're able to do to experience the comparable as you probably did till now you had a baby.
