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Should I be worried??

For the past while my husband has been coming home in the middle of the night or not coming home at all.

He doesn't call or anything, just shows up drunk.

He just texted me saying he might not come home.

He works in a restaurant with lots of young attractive girls.

And to add to it I can't have sex right now (it's pregnancy related)

I may be jumping to conclusions but I think he is cheating.

What would you think?

Is there anyway to find out?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    First, its completely unacceptable for your husband to be coming home so late or not coming home at all. You cant just lay down and let him do that.

    Second, Do you think he's cheating? Only you know how he's acting towards you.

    It kinda seems like he may be trying to get away from you while pregnant. Alot of guys get stressed during the womans pregnancy. And if you can't have sex, and he's the type, yes...hes probably cheating. It sure would explain alot dont you think? You need to confront him. When he's NOT drunk. You could have a friend try to follow him and find out where hes going. Or borrow someones car and do it yourself. he's a jackoff already for not being home with you at night, but a worthless jackass if he's cheating on you. I'm sorry you have to deal with this crap. Men tend to be very dumb.

  • 1 decade ago

    look you know if he is cheating

    but you really need to ask the question why is he doing it .

    most times a guy will need to vent if he is working at a resturant then

    your a young couple right . you need to open the line of communication.

    guys will never tell you how they really feel unless you ask

    he might be drinking his troubles away

    a form of him venting . In a new couples life sex is a major role that need to be filled too

    i am sorry that you cannot have sexual realations due to your issue .but there are other forms to

    help . i bet if you sat down and asked how or what he feels he will tell you .and fill the viod that he might be seeking . he might feel trapped . a peregancy is very stressing to a guy and

    you know not all guys have a father to tell them how to or show them what to do in this state right

    but you need to get to the bottom of it ask before you go stalker on him and push him away

    he might just be wanting a bigger check due to your new baby but ask ...

    as far as the druinking we vent in differnt ways and he needs to understand a beer is good but too many will hurt both of you . tell him how and what you feel too ok .

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with "NO". Have a friend go (or take you) to his work place about the time he would normally leave & see what happens.

    If you can't do this, the ask him straight out. If he gets defensive & blows up, then there's your answer.

    If turns out to be the case, plan where you want your life to go from here.

    Good luck to you. Be strong!

  • Jackie
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yes, I'm sure he's cheating. You, or someone else, can hide and watch goes on after the restaurant closes.

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  • .
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You definitely should be worried. Regardless of whether or not he's cheating, he's not acting like a loving and supportive husband. Actually, he's not even acting like a husband!

    If you are Audrina, he's your Justin Bobby!

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course he is cheating, you have to be totally blind not to know that, pregnant or not. Its up to you to put up with a cheater, just be careful of the STD going around, specially now that you are pregnant.

  • Well... Either he is cheating, or he is striking out like crazy but still trying. (those are the nights he comes home)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    have a friend go to the parking lot of the restaurant at closing time and observe what goes on.

  • 1 decade ago

    anytime a man doesn't come home unless he's locked up...he is cheating

  • 1 decade ago

    He's cheating.

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