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About my brother and his crazy girlfriend...?
My younger brother (22 yrs old) and his girlfriend are very off-again, on-again. I know he's not perfect, but she is just plain crazy! When they broke up this last time she stalked him, told people he hit her (which wasn't true...I know this because 1.) my brother wouldn't do that or I'd kill him and 2.) i heard the voicemail she left him admitting to lying about this), threatened to kill herself, and showed up at his job (which almost got him fired). My fiance and I are very close to my brother and we hang out with him a lot. Because he always wants her around now, I haven't been seeing him lately. My fiance thinks I'm being selfish and we should accept her back into our lives because it's my brother's decision to date her. I hate not seeing my brother every weekend anymore, but I don't want to be around this psycho-girl. The four of us used to double-date all the time and I do get along with her when we're all together, but the last few stunts she's pulled I just don't want to deal with it! My fiance is upset because my brother is his best friend and he thinks I'm being stubborn and should get over it. Am I right or should I get over it?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Let your brother make his decisions and I am sure he knows you care but that "PSYCHO" will and is driving you and your brother apart, weather intentionally or not. He will soon realize that she
is not good for him, meanwhile be there for him..........
- ?Lv 45 years ago
you could't administration or substitute her or your brother in regulation. besides the incontrovertible fact that, you could ask to be respected on your individual residing house and set up limitations. while you're in a amassing and he or she makes a impolite remark, you could ask her to surrender and if she would not, you are going to be able to desire to stroll away. shrink the quantity of time you spend along with her. you're on top of problems with your movements and behaviour. you have administration of your existence and can call for appreciate. in case you are not getting the respect you deserve, you've gotten that individual bumped off out of your individual area. (e.g. residing house) do no longer invite her anymore. tell your brother in regulation that he's invited yet she isn't. in the event that they ask, only be corporation and assertive and say semthing like "this is for family individuals in basic terms" or be direct and say "we don't desire your organization".
- 1 decade ago
i have a sister just like you and i realize you do not approve of his choices but they are his to make, try explaining this to your brother he will not like hearing it but he needs to, just let him know that you will be there when he needs you and that he has someone he can turn to when things go south again. he will learn from his mistakes and be a better person for it, but first he has to make the mistakes, its part of becoming a man
