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Can a person who has been separated ( kicked out of the house ) have sex with someone else without?

At 10am in the morning my spouse threw my belongings into the parking lot of my friends place while i wasn't home. I have been threatened if i didnt give my key back I cannot have the rest of my belongings.

Bottom line is: we're separating. After we've separated, can i have sex with someone else? Can they claim adultery if it was committed after the separation and use it to expedite the divorce (ground of divorce)?

Update:

Yes, I know my life is in shambles, and I have a lot to fix up on.

I agree, it's totally against the law to kick someone out without notice, there's landlord tenant acts for that, and it should apply equally even to people in a marriage.

I didnt give the key back, and i risked having my most valuable item destroyed, and held hostage. I pleaded with them not to kick me out on the phone afterwards for hours and was given the ultimatum to never be friends with that person.

Anyhow, I just came back in the house to get my stuff, to prevent my property from being damaged and taken hostage.

Im in the middle of a semester of school ( my last semester to get this business degree ) , I need my textbooks, computer, etc, to complete.

Shambles, theres no word to describe the duress im under; how can i go to school and focus on one thing when i have my home life to worry about...

It's a lot... However, sure I would like to get over this, and am just wondering the conseq of anthr relationship

Update 2:

Im basically marriaged to the equivalent of Stalin and Marcia Dooley. I am constantly harrassed and threatened, and my human rights have been trampled on.

These are things I would never do; I never follow people around and keep yelling at them when they aren't mutually desiring the conversation ( if you can call it that )

I never insult other people, put them down, to stroke my ego, and break the will of other people so i can exert power and control.

I never use duress, like threatening to divorce, destroy property, kick a person out....

The things they do.... i would never do... It's a true outrage...

FML

Update 3:

Anyhow... Sure my life is a mess, and have plenty to worry about...

Whats wrong with just getting an answer to having a relationship after ive been kicked out...

I feel so hurt and bad, so what if in 3 months I have the chance to befriend someone who provides warmth and close intimacy. I just want to know if I would be accused of being an adulterer and whether it would impact the divorce proceedings to give them any sort of advantage and cause a loss for me....

I have never committed adultery by the way, or done anything to deserve this...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You don't have to tell her dodo.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi Jade,

    1st the key... If you are legally married, you have a right to the key. Hang on to it.

    He can not keep your belongings, call the police, and have an officer escort you to get your things.

    2nd Your life is in shambles, your marriage falling apart, moving, and you want to know if you can get laid? What's up with THAT?

    Perhaps it would be in your best interest, if you sat down, put down the crack pipe (or whatever you are on, pills, weed, boose) for ten minutes and got your priorities straight...You need to think about where you are going, how you will pay for everything, saving, or killing off your marriage... getting laid should be the LAST thing on your mind... If you don't stop to think this out, your husband will really be screwing you... In court!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need your separation to be legally recorded first. After that, it is morally frowned upon but not legally frowned upon.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think i would be finding a lawyer not a sex partner. Seriously call a lawyer and ask, you don't have to tell them your name to get advice over the phone

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