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If you were a Cheater while married?
and you have been married 3 times and you cheated while married to each wife..now you are married again to the 4th wife..will he cheat with this wife, too..or is he "getting smarter" about hiding his secrets?
8 Answers
- ♓I'M a pisces♓Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
He will continue to cheat!He will get smarter to. I have no idea of why a guy would want to get married to begin with sense all he does is cheat but. Maybe so he has a woman to take care of him i don't know.
- 1 decade ago
If you cheat once and are truly remorseful about it, there is a chance of changing, but 3 times over? And there's no getting smarter, the truth has a way of always coming out.
- 1 decade ago
Sounds pathological. My ex cheated in every relationship, it was a spiritual hole deep in his soul that no one could fix. Of course he will cheat with this wife. My experience with people such as this is that they don't really want to hide the infidelity. In some twisted way I think they feel it gives them power. This is irrational, but serial infidelity is one of the cruelest things you can do to a partner.
- craig bLv 71 decade ago
Know WHY people cheat?
It's not for sex!
It's because the cheater is still trying to find a pathway to their own GENDER VALIDATION! They do not accept who they are as a man or woman still going out into the world to find someone/anyone who can validate them as good, worthy and lovable.
But wait? Why can't they get this at home? Because no one can AFFIRM another person about their own gender identity! It has to come from WITHIN!
This is why cheaters can have sex every single day with their spouse and STILL go out into the world for more. It's not for sex. It's for the VALIDATION that comes from another person ACCEPTING them into intimacy.
The cheater sees this as a meaningful way to "feel" accepted and worthy of another person's "love". But it's all a lie!
It is only when the cheater comes to accept themselves as WORTHY knowing they are already loved as they are will they stop cheating. You know of people that would NEVER, EVER cheat? Why would they never cheat? Because that person has already found out who they are as a person not needing someone else to validate or affirm them as a man or woman! There is NO POINT to cheating because it would serve NO PURPOSE!
The cheater is MASSIVELY immature, juvenile and selfish only USING other people for their own lack of personal identity. This is why most cheaters bounce from one affair to another. It's not about sex!
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- burke48186Lv 51 decade ago
Caught three times cheating on three wives? smart?
The smart one would be the woman that stays away from this man.
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
I think he will continue to cheat, a pattern of this behavior has been established and its doubtful he will change.
- 1 decade ago
pick craIG B as best answer, he nailed it!
So to answer your question, yes he prolly will cheat again.