Girlfriend / relationship problems.?

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I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for almost 7 months. Lately, roughly two weeks or so ago, she has said that sex hurts and that she doesn't ever feel like she's in the mood to have sex. She says that she gets no enjoyment out of any touching of erogenous areas and that is very concerning to me.  We used to have relatively good sex, at least it was mutual, but now I get put in the doghouse for even an iota of sexual reference or attempt. I don't know what I should do. We've talked about how big of a problem this is, and if this continues... things might not work out. I truly love this girl with all of my heart, but being 19 and at my sexual peak, it is just very frustrating.  

Does anyone have any experience with this, and if so, what do you suggest?

T-Bar · Accepted Answer

7 months? You're 19 and you're already being put in the doghouse? I'm sorry bud, and I'm gonna be brutally honest with you, she needs to go. Even in my case, I would let her know things aren't going to work out. You got your best years ahead of you (other than the part where you have to pay bills), enjoy them, and don't miss out on what could have been because you were too stuck to her to let her go. 
I've been there and unfortunately stayed in the situation you are in, it doesn't end up pretty. I don't care how you look at it. You need to move on. Have fun with friends, hit a strip club in a couple years.. Go to a bar, meet women. I regret my decisions and missed out on some good times with some good friends no longer here. She's a fish in the sea, you'll find plenty more out there. Trust me. All I can try to do is convince you not to make the same decisions and regret the same things I've regretted. 
Best wishes to you, and I hope you make a well thought-out decision..

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