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Meghan asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

He wanted me to return the favor? (Tips)?

So my boyfriend was preforming oral on me, and he asked me to return the favor by giving him head. hes never asked for it, he always said its my choice. but i decided to let him suffer seeing as he couldn't get me off .. but maybe next time i will.

I know how its done but i'm pretty shy, and i don't know how id like, lead up to it. and also, because its my first time, i don't want him to blow his load in my mouth.. i've tasted it from curiosity in the past and i liked it but, i don't think id be able to swallow whole.

What are some tips while doing it?

How can i lead up to it?

What would really turn him on? and should i just lay out ground rules before..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Jordan so he can upload it onto the internet? Not cool!

    oral sex isn't really used to get you off its mostly use a foreplay. If you don't want to give him oral sex then don't ask him to do it to (unless he wants too) thats selfish.

    ask him want he want you to do down there and say let me know when your about to ejaculate.Simple.

  • Yogi
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Jordon had some great ideas also have you considered some practice? On that note if you enjoy ice cream cones or even hot dog. Both could be used as a way to learn what you want ot do then later apply it t the real thing. Keeping in the back of your mind those things. As for swallowing some like and some do not. You could just up and really surprise him the next time he shows up. Provided it is private and all, drop down in front of him and just begin, things are sure to come up.

    The gorund rules would be a little hard to do if you was to surprise however, you could talk about it later.

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have to swallow it. Start of easy. Lick it. Get yourself accustomed to the taste. Then go for it. Use your hand, and don't let him push it too far in if you can't take it. The most pleasurable part is the tip anyway, so you don't have to gobble it all up.

    I think a lot of guys like to finish in a woman's mouth, and it seems to feel better if they keep going it at it during that. So, don't make the mistake of pulling out as it happens. If you like the taste, just keep sucking on it and let it shoot into your mouth. Then you can choose whether to try and swallow or not.

    Also, if you film it, then you can watch it later and learn from what you've done. It's sometimes difficult to have your head in the game, so to speak, when you're at it. Plus, you shouldn't be analyzing too much during it; just go with the flow. Analyze the video after if you need to.

  • sloca
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    This is meant to be fun and enjoyable for both of you, remember that. Play with him, tease him, enjoy him.

    With the exception of a quickie, a BJ should be started with some well placed teasing. Start by kissing and licking around his penis, on the inner thighs, then on to his balls, and then slowly up his shaft towards the head of his penis. Once you get there, use your tongue to tickle him around the glans, and the underside of his penis. At this point, he should be hard as a rock and super-sensitive to everything that you do.

    One common problem when giving a BJ is using only the mouth to repeatedly stroke his penis. This could work or give you a sore jaw and neck. A good ******** should not be too repetitive, should include stroking using a hand and the exploration of his testicles, thighs.

    Again, have fun and enjoy it. You don't get to play with his penis every day.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Im glad Im not a girl. I would never do that.

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