is it chauvinistic for a good looking girl to feel disturbed with someone who matchmake her with an ugly guy?

LOL not chauvinistic, no. And not even necessarily "wrong".

I once had some friends set me up with a giant fat Tongan. He was a Mormon, and he couldn't even walk up STAIRS without huffing and puffing, and I'm super-active and atheist. I didn't even go on the date.

Now, it COULD be that my friends were thinking that he and I are almost the same intellectually or something. But, attraction HAS to account for a lot in a physical relationship.

'Chauvinistic' seems to me misapplied here. It's clearly a personal thing, based on personal 'standards' about 'who's good enough for me.'

Ted's probably close enough to the common truth in calling it 'vanity,' but I have some reservations about that. I've ruled out some 'matchmaking setup dates' with girls I knew to be gorgeous, because I also knew them to be airheads. (Back when I was dating) I went cheerfully on setup dates with some delightful women who were ugly enough to make a buzzard puke; I'm still quite fond of them, et vice versa.

Not at all, but beauty is not everything even though i'm a good looking guy :) Some times we got to get deeper into a person to get to know them well, beside i know i'm not gonna stay always good looking, time harm our looks, so i will want someone to love me for who i am not for how i look.

Being arrogant and superficial is what would "turn" him ugly in my eyes. He seems more interested in having "eye candy" than he does in having a relationship...

Don't date him. Let him go out with someone who finds him attractive.

it's not chauvinistic. It's simply called vanity.