possibly pregnant and worried...?

I am not going to try to change your mind about keeping/aborting, because I agree that abortion is your best option.

That being said, I AM going to tell you to grow up. You can't deal with the humiliation and judgement of an abortion? Seriously? That's the reason why you are going to put yourself at significant risk by trying to cause an abortion in the second or third trimester? If you cause harm to your fetus late in the pregnancy, you are still going to have to go through the procedure of having the fetus removed -- which is much more painful than an early abortion! Plus, if you are unsuccessful, then you will just end up with a baby that is severely brain-damaged. If you don't want to bring life into this world to experience misery, grow up and have a REAL abortion, with a trained physician.

Go to a clinic (it does NOT have to be your regular doctor) and tell them that you want to terminate your pregnancy. I don't know anything about Canada, but here in the US, the usual place to go is Planned Parenthood. I am sure there are similar places in Canada.

Go out of town if you are too ashamed and afraid of judgment. This is only a tough thing to do if you are unsure about your decision -- you seem pretty certain, so I don't know why you're being such a baby about it.

First, I must say that I am in the states, so I do not know what the procedures are in Canada.

1. Your doctor - have you thought about seeing a different doctor? Without your adoptive mother knowing? If you are at least 18, I see no reason why you can't find a doctor you are comfortable with. You have every right to "shop around". I believe it is very important to feel comfortable and like the person who is treating you.

2. I don't know a lot about abortion scheduling. Try calling the clinic and see if they talk walk-ins for abortion. I suspect they may not, as an abortion is a little more complex and more time consuming than a regular appointment. Ask if you can make an appointment.

3. Confidentiality - In the states, doctors and clinics cannot by law inform ANYONE of your medical history and procedures. If you truly do not want anyone to know, they don't have to know.

4. Medical bills - Here in the states, you can go to Planned Parenthood and you can receive services for free or for a fraction of the cost, based on your income. Please look into having the abortion done the right way, as opposed to trying to lose your baby on the slopes. Also, someone is more likely to find out you were pregnant if it happens that way.

I support whatever decision you make. Please take a home test as soon as you can (at least two weeks after the date you thought you may have conceived).

first let me just say that you need to keep in mind that if you are not ready for the possibility of having a baby then you shouldnt be having sex.

and snowboarding, sitting in a sauna, and all those things are just as ridiculous and as false as saying you cant get pregnant if you have sex standing up.

Unless your body rejects the baby and you have a miscarriage, that is the only way of naturally getting rid of the baby. but there is no way to make it happen.

Your only option if you do not want to carry your baby to term is to have an abortion now. if you wait too long you will not legally be allowed to have an abortion and will HAVE to carry the baby to term. You can go into a clinic or planned parenthood and get this abortion without insurance FOR A PRICE. it can be pretty expensive.

Otherwise you have to go through your doctor. He will be better able to take care of this situation. and he is also, by law, required doctor-patient confidentiality and is not allowed to inform your adoptive mother or anyone else about this situation.

You really don't get to choose if you loose the baby naturally or not. If you're TRYING to lose the baby it certainly wouldn't be naturally. Sorry- someone's going to call you mom in 9 months if you are.

On the flip side, the pill could be messing up your system something terrible, so certainly take a test and calm down for now.

i stopped reading halfway through the second paragraph. If you used protection and youre on the pill theres NO possible way you could be pregnant. If you get pregnant on the pill with a condom then you MUST be retarded....youre not pregnant, stop your bitching.

you can get a major infection that can kill you if you dont go to a doctor to get an abortion!

If you're not ready to have a baby don't have sex.