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How to break up with my boyfriend?

I've been with him for about 2 months. I do love him but there are some problems that we've been working out. He lives about 1 hr and a half away from me. I'm in Brisbane now but the thing is.. when I leave school, I'm planning on living in Sydney to study there (best education I can find). I told him this but he insists that he'll come with me. It's bad enough that he wants to join the army so he'll be in Canberra. The thing is, I want to move to Sydney myself. I don't want to tie the knot and move in with anyone whilst I'm studying. I thought of us as a teenage thing, not the be all end all. I wanted to study, get my dream career and then plan on finding someone. I don't know how to tell him that I don't want to have a relationship while I'm studying. I don't wanna be weighed down. Only way I can see myself getting out of this is to break up with him, even though I would prefer to be with him. "/

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  • 1 decade ago
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    tell him that you still want to be in contact with him and be friends but right now you need to focus more on studing and not bf.

  • 1 decade ago

    The best way to do this would be to leave a note the next time you are at his house. Talking to him will just be terrible for both parties. If you let him down with a note you won't completely crush you. Just leave it on his desk or something, it will be fine.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think i can give u right solution cos i faced the same- see try to keep normal , stay like you always stay with him and tel him that you changed ur mind and you r thing to go to germany and then later on you dont let him know and just shift from there to sydney and if he comes to know then tel him u r just on a holiday in germany like this - he will never come to know :)

    i did the same, first he cried but now he is just fine

    believe me its just fine

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just call him and tell him the truth and let him know u guys will still be friends and have contact with each other...

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