does it matter who you lose your virginity too?

interesting....I personally would wait. You never know when you will find the right person. You can always do other things before you go that extra step.

People sometimes do one night stand and sometimes the other person does thinks there a connection and might not be the best thing to do.

but it is up to you, good luck and trust your gut, it normally is right

I get your situation because it's something I've thought about. I'm only sixteen but I'm keeping my virginity until eighteen just so I don't turn into my mother, but for me the whole virginity thing is kind of like the first kiss (which I still haven't had). Everyone makes a huge deal out of it. I'm not that great at the whole boyfriend thing, so the almost-random hook up thing is definitely something I've considered.

I think if you know yourself well enough, you can answer your own questions. In my opinion, to walk away from this with nothing more than the memory, no torn heartstrings or whatever, you need to reflect and ask yourself questions about YOU. If someone you've liked for a while goes and dates another girl, do you go home and mope about it? Or do you just go and find someone else? The physiologically thing will happen if you expect too much out of it. Just keep a realistic outlook. Make sure it's what YOU want to do and that YOU can handle it.

Hey!!!

Please don't just loose your virginity because you really feel like you want to do it NOW!!I did that at a wayy younger age than you are now and now that Im married I throughly regret that..

My first time was not special or rememberable for any of the right reasons....

You only get one virginity and sharing that with someone you love is such a beautiful thing..imagine you will have the very thing that EVERY man wants..its almost like a gift that you have been given and you get to give it to whoever you want-CHOOSE wisely...if you can even try and wait for marriage...

I didnt do that and I did get messed up psychologically I didnt realise how beautiful it was to be kept ...please dont make the mistake I did...

Look you are a virgin now and that is SPECIAL!!!TRUST me...keep being unique...and the one who is different amongst your friends...you will get a good man in time...just take your time..please

I hope you hear this advice resounding in your mind if you ever settle for anything less than the best!!!

xxSista.Sx

Personally, i think you should just wait until you find someone worth losing it to. Its so much better when your with someone that actually cares about you?

It depends on what kind of person you are, a friend of mine lost her virginity when she was 16 and she has sex with anyone to be honest but she doesnt get emotionally attached. But i personally cant do that, i lost it to my boyfriend who i love very much and weve known each other for 6 years. (im 20 by the way)

But yea in my opinion you should think carefully, and dont forget to use protection :)

I think many people regret who they lost their virginity to later down the line but if it's bothering you THAT much and your happy to have a one night stand with someone then that's completely up to you. Losing your virginity does not guarantee a confidence boost especially if you regret it terribly afterwards. Don't sell yourself short or cheapen yourself, it's a pity so many young people feel a huge pressure to lose their virginity by a certain age.

na u shood definitely wait and dis is cuming from a guy like wen i lost my v it was to a gal i didnt give a **** about and when i fell in love with my gf who im with nw i jus wish i waited and lost it to her plus ur nearly nineteen and u still a virgin thats really gd see i like girls like thet cuz you no ther not hoes bt b careful cuz sum wil just wna **** u and chuck u and u sound like a nice girl and if ur the sensitive type dn i could cause trust issues with the next guy u meet wich could be a major setback within a good relationshpip

To me, yes. I lost it to my boyfriend almost 2 years ago and I'm still with him now.

But if I were you, I'd wait. Don't just go with a random then walk away.You will regret it!

It's worth it just to wait for a good boyfriend worth spending your time with. I spent mine with a boyfriend who didn;t deserve me in the first place and i regret that.

Wait a little while longer.

SEX only feels great with the person you love, if you want sex with anyone go to a gigolo

To most people, yes it does. But I doubt it would for a slag like you.