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What to do when she flakes on a date and doesn't even text or call you?

So, yesterday me and this girl were supposed to go to a restaurant on a date. I texted her if 6:30 would be fine? She texts back: "Yea sounds good call me at 4:30 ok". I call at 4:30 and she doesn't pick up. A half hour later I try again and she still doesn't answer. Finally, after an hour goes by I text the pathetic nice guy line: "Hey. U taking a nap? It's ok. We can always reschedule if you want to. :)" It's now the next day and still ... nothing. I'm not going to make any more attempts to contact her anymore since yesterday at 6:00, but besides that what should I do, if anything? Any ideas on what to say if it's a lame excuse when she finally, if ever, contacts me? I've been out with her twice before and seemed to hit it off with her. In fact, the second date, bowling, was set up by her. lol.

Update:

FreshPIN... I would totally agree with you there had the date not been her idea from the beginning! lol

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  • 1 decade ago
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    SHES NOT INTERESTED BUT DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU

  • 1 decade ago

    HAHA, i have this same situation going on with me.

    Every time i talk to this girl shes like "oh yea, id love to hang out"

    But i think she was having issues with her phone and car.

    I'm gonna give it like a week or two and call her up and ask her if she wants to go out. If she blows me off again its on to the next one :)

    Hope that helps

  • 1 decade ago

    I am a female and im going through the same situation almost as you are. if you havn't heard from her and she still dosnt make contact with you forget about her and move on, i was also seing a guy myself same thing i text him no answer been weeks and i still havn't heard from him. and when they do run back to you see not interested sorry :) that's how i'm playing my game with this guy :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    call her out on doing that and tell her to never do that again, she maybe was testing you because women love to do things like that, let her know that you won't take her bullshit no more. You have be in control and be willing to walk away

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  • 1 decade ago

    I'd prolly text her and call her a bish. Hopefully she didn't die...so make sure she didn't die first, then go ahead and send a mean spirited text.

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