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How can I help my friend find a guy?
My friend and I are both 22 years old. I'm engaged and she's never even had a date! I feel bad that she's so lonely but she can't seem to find a guy that 'isnt a creeper' in her words. She's even tried dating sites. What can I do to help?!
4 Answers
- JoeLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Maybe you could spend more time with her, your fiance and one or more of his guy friends. Not a double date but she needs to get comfortable around men in social situations. If she's relatively attractive and "seems fine" around you, then she definitely has a problem being comfortable around men.
And online dating is sooooooo simple. All she has to do is sit back and watch the invitations roll in. So, obviously, she's doing something wrong there. She needs super clear, flattering pictures to attract the best guys. That's right, they're picky as well.
And then she needs a nice, friendly intro. She doesn't have to give her life story but it should make someone think, "Boy, this girl sounds like fun."
Women who have a problem dating are usually their own worst enemy. They either set their sights too high or don't give things an honest try. Again, online dating is easy ... but it does require a bit of effort to get good results.
And if she's one of those crazy people who thinks "it will just happen" then you need to shake her and let her know that she will be alone forever with that attitude. If she wants someone in her life, she needs to make an effort.
- 1 decade ago
Absolutely nothing. Let her find her guy. She's looking in the wrong places and she's not putting herself in places were she could hit it off with someone similar to her. I know everyone got their types, but advice her to stop worrying about looks for a minute, and enjoy the company of someone with great conversation. Sometimes looks blind people. Appearances are not always correct.
- 1 decade ago
She really needs to find that on her own. Im assuming, she's meet all your boyfriends friends -right?
Is she picky? what does she look like? There's not a whole lot you can do to help. Just be supportive of her while shes on her quest.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
the problem of her finding a guy is that shes "trying to find a guy." she has to let them find her becuz a friend told me let love find me and a week l8r it did but not immediately.
dont look for it let it find u