What do you think the % is of adoptees that end up becoming bmoms?

i don't have the data, but i suspect it depends on the situation. if an adoptee (now pregnant) has marked discontent towards adoption, maybe not. but, if an adoptee (now pregnant) believes that "adoption is a loving choice" or have no modeling of effective single parenting. in addition, i think it might be more likely if she is young and encouraged by an adoptive mother who have no experience with a biological maternal/child bond. basically, people tend to do what they know, unless they have a strong positive or strong negative experience.

be well.

Having grown up adopted,albeit in a very loving home with a lovely family, <<<<have to add that because when you hate being adopted it is blamed on the adopters (eye roll) I can categorically state that I would sooner sever my right arm off with a blunt instrument before I would surrender my flesh and blood baby to be raised with strangers

I don't think many adoptees would inflict the pain of losing their mother and heredity upon their offspring

Of all the adopted adults I know (and there are many!) I know of only one who is both an adoptee and relinquishing mother; but even that was a forced adoption

Wishing you peace in your 'choice'

I know 2 adoptees who surrendered children to adoption, and BOTH were forced adoptions. AP's don't understand the bond a natural child has with his or her natural mother, so it was no big deal to lose a grandchild by forcing their adoptling to relinquish.

For me, personally, and knowing MANY adoptees, the majority have had abortions versus relinquishing when we did not wish to parent.

I have no clue tbh, and I think I'd balk at what I suspect the true figure is.

I reckon it's gonna be higher than biologically raised kids abandonin' them though. :(