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Girls NEED Your Advice, do I have chance with this girl?

Theres this girl I like in my college class (community college) that I befriended. She goes to class with her best friend (who I also befriended) and normally they are always talking to eachother. Last week they friended me on FB and I found out that the girl I like has a BF (I think she's a cool girl though and has a nice personality so I continued to befriend her and joke around with her a little on FB). Anyway today her best friend wasn't there so I sat next to her and we talked the whole time (15-20 minutes). The teacher didn't have a lesson plan ready so he let us go early. Then we walked out of class and talked more. She mentioned her wanting to get a drink and I asked if she want me to keep her company while she got the drink and she said ok (nonchanlantly). We got the drink and we both started to walk out to our cars. I asked her what she had planned besides clubbing on Friday. She told me shopping and buying flowers. I asked her why and she said she was buying them for her BFs mother because her BFs mother took her to a flower convention recently. After that she said that she hates BFs mom and her BF. I was surprised and responded "you hate both of them". She said yeah and I asked her why she's still going out with him and she said she doesn't want to break up with him before his birthday. After his bday though she's breaking up with him. By then I reached my car and we said goodbye. Is this a sign of me having a chance? I'm not going to say she likes me because I'm not sure if she just being nice and that's part of her personality (she also mentioned in class once weeks ago that she has a hard time saying "no" to people. What steps should I take to telling her I like her? I won't see her for 12 days because of spring break starting.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think she's leaving an open door to you if she honnestly told you she hates both of them. But still, make sure she's not saying that because of any recent argument she had with him. If i were you, i wouldn't make any move before she breaks up for sure. After that i'd try become a close friend but not too close cause girls never date the best friend guys. And, once i'd be sure she forgot her ex, i'd try ask her out, but i'd first check whether she likes me or not and whether i have a chance or not.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just keep being her friend. Don't swoop in there right after she's broken up with her boyfriend and try to get into a relationship with her. Give her some time and space. During the 12 days you should only talk to her one or two of those days. You don't want her to think you're a creeper. The less it seems you care for her the more she will like you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Whoa whoa whoa whoa

    You are already moving too fast

    Most girls DO NOT want to get pounced on after a breakup unless they show interest first.

  • ASHIL
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    you have a good chance... i would say want for breakup and step in dont pounce be gentle.... that how girls love it...........have worked for me .. and many guys i know ... but that me ... i just fool around not a serious love .

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  • 1 decade ago

    you have a chance.

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