If i'm an aries how do I deal with a scorpio and virgo?

My best friend Is a virgo, and we get along great, I recently made friends with another virgo and she is the total opposite of my bestie. I like this new friend and want some pointers to not ruin this new friendship. The virgo's better half is a Scorpio, any suggestions on how to have a healthy relationship with these people? Please and thank you :) I am an Aries by the way, but not your typical aries. I dont believe i'm as selfish as they say aries are, I'm kind and I love to make others feel good about themselves, I have a strong "mother" instinct that's a bit over protective of my friends and family. I'm out going but not abnoxious. Thank you for your answers, any info will help.