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should i go out with my guy friend? but i m already in a relationship.?
i hv been in this relationship for 8 months and we r going fine. nxt week, my bf is going to San Francisco with his college friends (including girls too) and i can go with him but they are coming back on Monday. So i don't want to miss my classes on Monday so i didn't.
Today one of my guy friends ask me if i wanna to go to club on sat night. This week is my spring break too.. So what should i do?. is that wrong to go out with my guy friend while im in a relationship.. i mean only me and him.. NOT with a group of friends.
actually i m planning to break up with my bf in nxt month after his MCAT exam. He has his goal and has to go long way to get marry.. My sister said i should find someone who is staple and be ready to marry in 5 years. My current boyfriend gona go to Medical school and join the Navy afterwards. He has his BIG goal and i can't wait for him while he is going to school in another state.
And my spring break is coming too.. that's why i just wanna have fun drinking and partying in this weekend
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If I was in your shoes then I would invite a bunch of your girl friends to go with you to a club, or go with a mixed group of friends that is including girls and guys. (Instead of going with just this one guy friend.) You shouldn't have to stay home and miss out on having fun.
By the way, I think it's really nice of you to wait until after your boyfriend's MCAT exam to break up with him. I'm sure he's been studying for it for months. You seem like a really nice person, treat yourself to the fun that you deserve! (without the guilt of going with just one guy) :)
- 1 decade ago
Are u planning on telling your bf?.... If I was him I wouldn't take it to we'll, on fact I personally would get bent....here's the truth gorl...do u have any of the slightest attraction to this guy, if so...absolutely decline....sounds like a disaster....on the other hand how is your with your bf...is he ok with u hanging out with "friends" or is he way jealous and over protective of u in those scenarios? And vise versa how would u take the opposite circumstance with him going clubbing with a girl u don't know and just the 2 of them...me personally I don't get jealous and trust is a 100% of every relationship, along with honesty of course....if this hypothetical scenario were to come to fruition, u better be straight forward and might want to invite a few other people along with u in case this get awkward.....also, does this "friend" know your in a committed relationship? Are u guys flirty with each other...if so, my suggestion is to back out and kindly cancel....drinks, no curfew, just u and him...sounds like a great scenario for him where poor decisions bpmight be made....think about the consequences to this all and then use your best judgement to make ur mind up....regardless, the bf must know (which depending on him may not go smooth)....good luck girly
- 1 decade ago
I'm with anonyms. If you don't know that your bf would be ok with it- don't do it. I know for sure that if my gf went to a club with another guy, I'd be pissed. Not on the same level as cheating, but I'd never know what went on that night.
- Staying AliveLv 41 decade ago
Yes, I'd feel uncomfortable if I was in a relationship with someone and going to clubs with someone else. Think about what your boyfriend would say if he found out? Don't do it.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Nothing wrong with that.
You 2 do WHATEVER, and I mean WHATEVER you like...smh.