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daa
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daa asked in Pregnancy & ParentingParenting · 1 decade ago

Do you read aloud to your older child?

If you have a child who reads independently, do you still read to him/her? At what age did you / will you stop?

My 9 year old is an avid reader, but she still likes to be read to every evening before bed. My mother read to me when I was very young, but as soon as I was reading on my own she stopped.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    "They" say you should continue to read together anyway. My boy is 9 and NOT an avid reader at all. Reads only non fiction on his own, but there's books that he'll choose that he'll want me to read to him...or books that he wants us to read together anyway. James and the Magic Peach is one we're reading right now. He'll read a few pages, I'll read a few pages. Sometimes, we'll just sit together and he'll read his book and I'll read mine.

    It's good for bonding time and for knowing where the kid's head is when situations come up in stories. Ya know?

  • 1 decade ago

    My favorite memories from grade 4 was that my teacher would read to us and each character would have a different "voice". I was an avid independent reader by that time but I still loved the experience. (Thank you Mrs. Pike) so I too strive to read to my older child who is independently reading stage 2-3 books.

    Sadly I don't get to do this as often as I'd like and he is more interested in physical activities (he's very energetic and needs to get active or he gets antsy and acts out). On top of that he's really proud that he can read on his own and feels almost babied if I read to him so I ask him to read to me. Sometimes he feels put on the spot if it's anything near a challenge so I let him read me books he knows for sure he can read out loud well and I always give him praise for being brave.

    If my younger son is more comfortable with mom still reading to him after he learns how I plan to read to him.

  • PetMom
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    1 decade ago

    I have read to my children every night since they were very, very young. My daughter will be 13 very soon and still enjoys reading aloud every night. Each of us reads a portion of the nights selection. They are encouraged to pick out books they think they would like and we take turns reading from their choices.

    Honestly, I hope that we will continue to do this for a long time to come.

  • 1 decade ago

    i read to my two older kids daily until sometime last year, when we lost the book we were in the middle of and got derailed. it also was related to the fact that my middle schooler is getting a ton of homework so it's hard to find the time. they're 9 and 11. they do read a ton on their own but i still feel guilty we haven't gotten back on track with read-alouds and they've been asking for it, so i guess i'd better track the book down or go get a new copy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Read to her for as long as she wants you too! Don't take her childhood for granted. They're only young once. Soon she'll gain more independence and not want a whole lot to do with you. I think it's great that she still wants to listen to her mother's voice. :)

  • 4 years ago

    I would read a book but I need silence and I watch television for Big Bang theory family person spongebob funny or movies generally put me a good book and I will read it

  • 4 years ago

    You be seated and read a booklet and the character types unfold in that vast panorama which is your mind and imagination and the scope is hundreds, literally a huge selection of times greater than the unpleasant Television world

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My eight-year-old and I still read together every night. Some nights he wants to read; some nights he wants me to read. 50-50, I'd say.

  • 1 decade ago

    I read to my nine year old all the time she loves it. She can read but prefers me to read to her. My oldest son is 13 he has no interest in me reading to him.

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