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Gender studies, how would you answer this kid?
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Starting my dream career in a bang by working in the local museum staff, I was tasked on the crafts-and-activities sessions that start every morning there. We are a free-entry museum funded by donations, so many parents bring over their kids to tour around the area and socialize.
Currently, this month, we've got this kid coming on the weekends for a whole day alone. Since this is a small museum, thankfully we are always able to keep an eye on him. This is nothing new, tons of parents bring kids and leave them to their artifact-hunting and clay-work for an hour or two. This boy is left til closing. I was tagged a couple of times before to sit with him and walk with him through the galleries. He's a quiet kid at first, but he's always hyperactive and imaginative after a while.
Yesterday, though, after showing him the in-progress room in making the dinosaur exhibition, he was morose and quiet. until finally, he admits that he hears a lot of people telling off one of his parents. After asking why, he says he doesn't know. Only that something bad happened before which made his dad go to the hospital, and made him mum disappear off to work all of a sudden. He doesn't know why his family life had suddenly changed, and it's scares him. It had bothered him even worse though, that the friends of the family have began to tell off his mother whenever they come by, because his mother started working. That's the only amount of details he has managed to say. Before it was only his dad that worked, it seems.
That was when he started to ask me why they'd do that. Why would his mom leave him, and why is everyone so angry at her as well.
We were all hard-pressed over this question back at the staff. After his mom came for him, we found out his dad was a road-worker when he broke his back, and they're hoping on the eventual surgery. I could only tell him that his mom is going out to work so his dad would get better faster, and that her friends are only worried and that's why they're stressed out. Unfortunately, we can't really know what really's going on. Only that the woman seemed to be trying to juggle way too many things, and that the kid is feeling confused and scared.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First thing that came to mind is that his mom is a stripper. I don't really know any jobs that are judged like that so that's the only conclusion I could come up with. You aren't really working as a daycare either people are misusing your museum. If need be, I recommend educating him some bit while hes there and that sounds like what you're doing. Just keep him distracted by being funny and lively. Tell him that whatever his mom is doing what shes doing because she loves him and his father very much and he shouldn't worry because his mommy is strong. Have some fun breaking the rules by running around the museum or taking him to secret spots. Hmm. this is very difficult. I've found out that distraction via happiness is the best way children deal with these problems.
Source(s): Been working with kids for 5 years (summer job, I tutor children with learning disabilities) - ?Lv 51 decade ago
That's frustrating, not being able to really find out what's going on. In your situation, I would encourage the boy to keep trying to communicate with his parents. If he keeps asking them what is going on, they are going to cave and tell him eventually. I understand how parents think they are keeping their kids safe by not telling them everything, but in this case he is feeling stress from not knowing what is happening. When he asks you about these things, encourage him to ask his mother. Tell him that mommies are there to talk to about your problems, and that he can tell his mom that he has been feeling very confused about what is happening.
I'm not good at talking to kids, but it sounds like you are, so you'll have to figure out how you'd like to word it for a little boy.
- ?Lv 61 decade ago
I really don't know but it sounds like his Mother is trying her best and you probably did all that you could in this situation. Everyone has ups and downs throughout life and this boy will learn that eventually. Good luck.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
poor kid!
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don't know