So let me get this straight about girls and being treated badly?

yes, there are some men who think this way. they are the same men who feel that they have a "relationship" with the women in the porn they watch.

Many men have found from experience that many women will repay a man's kindness and gentlemanly ways with disrespect and contempt. The same men have found from experience that the same women will often pursue a man who ignores them and show him kindness, respect and a willingness to have sex with him. Why are you asking us for a mansplanation of a peculiarity of female behaviour? You are female, you tell us why females act in such an irrational way.

Many men believe that the reason why women are so stupid when it comes to choosing a mate is because they are turned on by the bad boy image. When such women are young they often ignore nice decent men and favour men who have an exiting image. A woman I know is a classic example of this, she married an ex paratrooper and loved his hard man image. When she stopped being a silly young girl and grew up to be a mature woman she began to realise that her man was a total a.rsehole so she ditched him and got herself a nice decent men like the ones she ignored in the past.

You say "it sounds like, "simply walk past someone with no eye-contact, and bam" It does not sound like that at all. You are taking bare facts and clothing them with gross exaggerations.

You also say "when a boss shouts at a female-coworker, "I never knew it's a mating ritual" Once again you are making things up. There is nothing about a boss shouting at a female worker which suggests that he is performing a mating ritual.

For a person with recent study experience your standards of assessing facts are appallingly low.

You must try harder.

You recognise I believe honesty is the foundation of all well relationships. Also, maintaining any person's believe is totally predominant IMO. I surprise what the purpose was once of the individual who handed on that understanding to you? Oh good. Anyway it kind of feels to me that she "harbored a weigh down" however under no circumstances did whatever to behave upon it with you. She saved her boundries intact, and probably she even knew you had been directly. Nevertheless it kind of feels to me that although she felt this fashion, it was once now not like she was once looking to "bounce your bones" or act inappropriately. Let me deliver you a obstacle in my possess existence. I am a lesbian. My trade accomplice is a "directly male" We have labored in combination for over a 12 months now, and it just lately got here out that he had romantic emotions for me. I instantly, instantly and concisely advised him that at the same time i really like him as a pal, which I do, there under no circumstances, ever might be whatever romantic among us. Initially I felt uncomfortable, however I have evaluated it as "my drawback" He has the proper to believe the way in which he does, and I have the proper to believe the way in which I do. Perhaps you would name her and say, "whats up so and so, I wish you to grasp anything. It was once handed directly to me that you've got emotions for me of a romantic/sexual nature. Is this precise?" If she says sure, then you'll be able to say: " I such as you. You are very candy...nearly the way you defined her above, "however I don't believe that approach approximately you and it made me uncomfortable listening to this from a colleague." Only you'll be able to come to a decision in the event you wish to be peers, however while you set boundries it turns into a lot simpler if they've recognize for the ones boundries.

Surprisingly it works well on men too. If you're a ***** to them, they try harder to get you to like them. Doesn't work on all of them, some go "what a *****" and move on, but quite a few turn up the charm and badger the girl for more attention. Perhaps it's the guys that are used to girls falling for them that can't stand rejection.

No. It needs to be done more subtly than that, or else the girl will catch on. Although it's true women have lesser intelligence than men on average, it's not THAT much lower.

Eh, it works with some women, not all. Strangely it seems to work on young, attractive and "unattainable" women the most. Couldn't tell you why.