Is it okay to buy something not on a registry for a bridal shower gift?

I hate to tell you but there's nothing tacky about a honeymoon registry. Now if they came out and asked for cash only, that's highly gauche, but there are websites that will host a honeymoon registry that couples use all the time. I once bought a friend dinner in Italy for her wedding gift!

If there's nothing on the registry in your price range, just get the bride a gift card from that store for $25-50. Last year I got more Target gift cards than I can count, it was great.

yes, I think its ok. (I am a bride-to be and I am in my 20's.) I would give them a $50-$100 gift card to one of their Wedding registries. Or send a card with some cash in it. Or maybe buy something they didn't think of. I know on some of the more expensive stuff, people will go in groups to purchase the more expensive things. Hope this helps.

Honeymoon registries are pretty common actually. You're buying the couple something they want/need. I would just give them a card w/ money in it or get them a gift card. A visa gift card would be nice..then they can use it for dinner on their honeymoon, or toward one of the expensive gifts from the registry.

Of course it is ok to choose your own gift! What happened to the element of surprise? That used to be of the great features of receiving a gift. Hey... at least you gave a ****! LOL Just kidding. Give what you can, in an enveloped card. No Biggie, seriously times are tough for everyone, Be happy you were invited at all. Registered for their Honey moon? that is a bit Tacky. People should just be happy with the fact that you are attending in the first place,and vice versa. I think the standard going rate of a wedding gift is $100.oo

gift or cash

The registry is a SUGGESTED list, not a mandate. You may give them whatever you choose. Registries weren't common until stores realized they could generate more sales for themselves by convincing bridal couples that guests MUST buy off the registry. Handing someone else your shopping list and expecting them to fulfill it is, was, and will always be extortion.

Also, regarding the "going rate" of $100, must be nice to have that much money. I would never give that much unless it was a sibling or other close relative. Give within your means; there is no "going rate."

There is nothing tacky about a honeymoon registry. Sounds like you are bitter.

Get them whatever you wish. Just remember that you did it out of spite.

i would just give them a nice card with 50 to 100 dollars in it.

it is tacky to register for honeymoons, but the fact is that all weddings are expensive and most couples need money more than anything else. of course nice towels or sheets are always good. people always end up using those.

You can buy whatever you want. Registries are just a guide

Strictly speaking, a gift is not obligatory, and you should not spend more than you can afford. That said, however, if you go, you should bring some affordable gift or perhaps a check and let them decide.