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Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and everything has been perfect until a couple weekends ago. He's been acting different, almost like he's trying to keep his distance from me. I'm a shy girl who can't really show very much emotion. I don't give him the attention he deserves, I guess the reason I don't is because I had an ex who was really clingy and I hated it. My boyfriend is older then me too, and I don't want him to get sick of me if I can't give him that attention, but I'm afraid he will if I do give him that attention. I'm too shy to show the "love" emotion. I love him a lot, I mean he's my world. What can I do to make him happy again? Or what should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Usualy people only change the way they act when something happen that troubles them. You are not the problem, it's him. If you act as you normaly do,and he keeps this distance, you should ask him, What did I do that upset you? . This puts him on the spot. Because he has to think of a reason he's not acting like he used to. He had something happen that makes him distant,and your question should get a response. You know him well enough to know when he's lying, you can decide if you want to dig any deeper.

  • 1 decade ago

    :P Been there... we wernt together for that long.. but when i noticed i thought i was doing something wrong.. But me being as crazy as i Am.. went on his facebook wall and saw that he was commenting on this girl Heathers status's alot... and found out he was texting her and flirting behind my back.. i would just keep an eye on him.. i mean this may sound obsessive.. but ask to check his phone and the password to his facebook/myspace/twitter... and watch him at school... and something could have happened that weekend.. he may have gone to a party.. and cheated or something.. so just keep your eyes peeled :)

  • jms043
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    What ever happened to, ``Love me, or leave me.?``If a guy has to have his ego stroked in order to be decent, then he`s not for you. Find someone who`s compatible with you.

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