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How do I tell my mom I had sex?
All right. Well my mom and I have always been really close and open about talking about relationships and sex and such. That's why I'm so freaked about telling her, because she has always told me to wait until I was in a relationship with a guy that I trust and love and who trusts and loves me. That's why I've been a "good girl" and remained a virgin until I was 18.
Well, it wasn't really like that--the love and trust and whatnot. I met the guy at work and we've been attracted to each other since I started a few months ago. And a few days ago I was over his house with the intention of studying for our finals, and I don't know it just happened. One minute we're studying and joking around and the next we're fooling around. And I have really, really, liked this kid for a while and I completely trust him so I mean I'm totally okay with it. And we were safe and used a condom so it's not like I'm also worrying about a pregnancy scare. But we're not together or anything--well nothing has been decided. So I want to tell her, but I'm not sure if I should before everything is settled with the guy or what, and how I would even approach her. I know she's going to be disappointed in me--possibly angry with me--so I don't know what the best way to approach her would be or how to tell her. Help, please?
2 Answers
- AlLv 610 years ago
We realize that we doesn't have control over our true feeling toward some one you're very comfortable with and caring about one another with unconditional love and affection which is normal because you will never know whats is plain the the future.
Your question take me to believe you're a highly intelligence young lady with a very promising future and you know what you want life and you think for your self and you did not wrong with having sex with your friend.
Although you and you mother share honestly conversation about the facts of life and don't think you should feel guilty and feel like you need to tell her about you personal decision you make because you're right she is not going to understand if you do tell her. you're an adult now you are going to run home and tell your mother ever time you have sex encounter. She doesn't tell all of her personal encounter? What you done was by choice and we all have the choice in the matter. No
- M.O.Lv 510 years ago
I probably wouldn't tell my mom but that's me.
Just tell her exactly that. Explain to her the same way you explained it in your question.
What's done is done.
So you can either keep it yourself or tell your mom. I'm sure the outcome won't be as bad as you think.
