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My boyfriend has had some trouble over the paternity of a child he was supposed to have concieved in a previous fling last year before he met me. He has doubts because the baby came 2months early and weighed nearly 7lbs on birth. The mother insists that the child is his but will not do a dna test to prove otherwise.

He is being slated for not being in the child's life etc when he feels he can't bond with the child, not knowing if its really his. Anyway, he has asked to meet with the mother and child to get dna samples to get the whole thing cleared up, but the mother keeps delaying and palying games so that it dosen't get resolved. Why does she do this? Surely if she was so sure that the child is his- she would make sure that it is confirmed? So why would she avoid the dna test?

Thanks

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  • 10 years ago
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    It's either because she has no doubt the baby is his, or she knows damn well the baby is not his, i would say the latter. If beyond reasonable doubt she thought the baby was his she would not hesitate in having a test. does he not see the baby at all so he can have a test done. And then if the baby was not his he would not have any responsibility to the child. Then the mother could go after the baby's real father (or does she not know who the baby's father is ) i would contact a solicitor to legally make her have the test.

  • 10 years ago

    Sounds fishy to me. Take legal action to obtain a DNA test if she will not willing to do one outside of the legal system. I do not see why she is not doing it, if the child is in fact his then why not do it to prove it right?

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    10 years ago

    i don't know if you've watched gossip girl but something like that happened with georgina and dan..

    if she won't do a dna test then that pretty much makes sense that the baby isn't his and she's scared to admit the truth or she wants to mess with your relationship with him. get the police involved or something she's a psycho.

    ps goodluck.

  • 10 years ago

    THEY dont have to; see if the other possible will give it up"d n a "then you kill two birds.good luck

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