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Guy didnt pay for our second date.....Does it make sense that I'm upset at this?
Okay so I went out with this guy twice so far. The first time we met was great we went bowling followed by talking at a diner for a long time. I used my free bowling game passes on us and had my own pair of shoes so no rental was required so all he had to do was pay for his shoes. Oh and he bought me a drink at the alley. When we went to the diner we just sat and talked and didnt order anything. But it was great playful conversation and we ended it with a hug and said goodbye several times with each time getting distracted and more conversation following.
So for our second date I drove to his area and he took me to this nice valley area with hills and corn fields and we just walked around. Then we decided to go to a movie but had time to kill so we just drove to a few places. When he drove the music was a bit loud so I didnt feel comfortable talking much and he never really walked close to me which sent mixed signals. When we got to the movies we were in line and we walked up to the clerk together when I hear him say "One ticket please." So he didnt even pay for my $11 dollar movie ticket. That actually made me upset. Does that make sense that I should be upset? Arent guys supposed to at least offer to pay in the beginning? And so in the theatre I was cold and he noticed but didnt do anything about it. No hand holding or arm around me. And when the date ended we ended it with another hug. I dont know any advice? We havent texted since which was a few days ago but he has liked and commented my statuses on facebook. Help.
No, I dont even talk to my father, I'm not rich at all. Please don't make assumptions. But the fact that he didnt pay for anything the first date because I had free passes and my own stuff, he couldnt put out 11 dollars for a movie ticket on our second date? He also updates his status about spending 100 dollars on fireworks this weekend and how he made a lot of money this week.... I dont know this doesnt make me feel very good.
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- BlueDesertLv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
He sent you a clear message that you are on your own if their are any further "dates" with him. He is not that into you and sees you as a casual friend only. If you don't like paying your own way then move on. He clearly showed you he is not going to pay. This would NOT be a good sign if you 2 were to become more deeply involved. I know someone who has been married for 20 years and he still buys his own dinner and lets his wife pay for hers. Not a marriage made in heaven.
- ?Lv 410 years ago
HE didn't pay for YOUR ticket. it's eleven dollars. think about that.
see, women have fought for equality, and slowly that battle's finally ending and things are more becoming more equal and etc etc, and everybody's gotten to enjoy the reward of their actions, but with rewards comes responsibility.
which means that, as an equal member of society, unless there are special circumstances you're now capable of paying for something that you need to pay for. at such low prices yet; we're not talking about a new TV here, we're talking about a movie ticket.
Source(s): maybe this is why i don't date. - Anonymous10 years ago
His time is just as valuable as yours. If you go out with your friend do you expect them to pay for you?
- the grindLv 410 years ago
sounds like somebody's dad is rich. not everyone will dig deep into their pockets for you.
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- Jerome JeromeLv 610 years ago
Yeah ... if he considers you a girlfriend or a potential girlfriend, that's disrespectful
- Anonymous10 years ago
forget about him, i would upset, guys should pay always...he is just greedy