After 9 years my ex-wife has just decided to tell me I'm not the biological farther! What are my rights UK law?

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I met my ex wife in Sept 2001 and, as you do, had 'fun' on a couple of occasions but then parted ways. No relationship was ever established so there were no hard feelings. By coincidence she got a temp job where I worked in Jan 2002 & I noticed she was pregnant. I asked who the farther was & she said it was me. So, being a decent guy I did the right thing and asked her if I could be involved so we arranged to meet. Long story short, we got together & our daughter was born in early July. I naturally went on the birth certificate. We got married in July 2004 & had our son in Dec 2005.  Things went pair shaped in Aug 2008 & we split up in Sept. She left me on grounds of incompatibility but to make the divorce quicker I agreed to unreasonable behaviour, not washing dishes & other minor things, nothing serious. Finally got divorce sorted in Nov 2009 but from about 3 months after she left she has made my life hell. She broke into my house & took all the contents (posted in an earlier question) & has stop me seeing the kids on many occasion for ridiculous accusation. In a nut shell she is generally horrid & has been for almost 3 years. All the time for her own selfish pleasure & not considering the children. All has been quiet for a few months now but last Friday I received a letter from her solicitor asking me to sign a clean break order, but also rolled into the equation, "your ex wife wishes to be open and honest with your daughter now she is 9 & wishes to inform her you are, intact, NOT her biological farther." I was devastated & worried for my daughter & son. The letter also ordered me not to contact her so I'm now airing to see if I'm going to be denied seeing her again. I am having a paternity test but am genuinely worried I will find out I am not her farther. I have always been told I am & she will always be my little girl as I've been a devoted farther throughout every stage of her life, I just don't know where I stand if I'm not? Any help greatly appreciated.

StephiPets · Accepted Answer

Wow, she is a b i t ch, I don't even know what else to say.....  Sorry man.  Don't forget that not all women are like that.

witherell · Answer

We on no account did the Santa, easter bunny or tooth fairy situation. our infants have grew to become out super and don't look back and get disappointed because of the fact we "ruined their adolescence". the youngsters understand that Christmas is for family and that we each supply presents to one yet another with love. We continuously defined to the youngsters that santa is actual to different little ones because of the fact this is their theory, yet we did no longer rejoice Santa. the youngsters on no account instructed different little ones,we continuously taught them to admire different little ones and what they rejoice. basically make her the helper, she will stay wakeful later and placed the provides out under the tree. she will circulate on, existence won't end for the little woman. I promise.

JOHN G · Answer

If she is not your daughter and you are denied any contact see a solitictor, if you have been paying maintenance  when you wife  knew you were not the father then that is obtaining money by fraud which is a serious matter.

lolly · Answer

Considering the twisted way she is acting, I think you can't be sure about this until you get the test results. Whatever will be, will be. What an awful woman.

Anonymous · Answer

This is why I say all live births should have paternity tests. That way b*tches can't try sliding one past men anymore.

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After 9 years my ex-wife has just decided to tell me I'm not the biological farther! What are my rights UK law?

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