I keep having Gay dreams?

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I keep having dreams where I'm involved in homosexual activities. I do not consider myself gay, I am aroused and turned on by women, I do look at female porn, I am not married but have a gf. I thought maybe I maybe in the closet or that gayness was asserting itself, which I would have no objection to if that was the way I am. But men simply do not sexually excite me. I have experimented by looking at male porn, thinking about gay activities, you name it, none of it gives me any kind of excitement. So I do not understand why I keep having dreams about it. In the dream the acts do not seem awkward or wrong in any way, and I am aware that the acts are homosexual, and there is even a degree of excitement in the dream, but in reality, nothing. What on earth is going on?

Update:

BTW, I'm 42

Pingu · Accepted Answer

So these are like recurring dreams? Seems kinda odd ^_^ but I wouldn't worry about it if that's not how you feel in your waking life. To use myself as an example, the only wet dream I ever had was when I was 11 and that was over Eva Longoria, definitely a woman. Yet I'm gay as anything now.

 I know an 11 year old and a 42 year old is slightly different but the principle is the same; dreams cannot be controlled and mean nothing. Hell, just look it at that you've got a slightly kinky side :P

guo · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Dreams don't mean anything. If you actually want to have sex with men in real life (and not just out of curiosity), then you may need to reconsider your sexuality. But dreams are just that...dreams.

Anonymous · Answer

The're just dreams dude, it really doesn't mean anything. It's probably just stuck in your mind from the first time you had it and thats why you keep having them cause you're so stressed about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you're bi. But in real life it doesn't seem you're gay at all. I'd say to just ignore it, only you can tell if you're gay (it doesn't seem like you are though). You're just over thinking it. Minds do weird things.

? · Answer

It's just fantasy, don't worry about it. You're most likely straight but a bit bicurious, so those curiosities come out in your dreams. You don't have to worry about. It's totally normal to have sexual fantasies about someone you're not attracted to in real life.

I had a straight dream last night, haha. I told my husband and we laughed about it.

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