If you're looking for confrontation, are you more likely to see it in places where it doesn't exist?

Kind of a confirmation bias type of thing? I see that a lot on Yahoo! Answers, particularly this section, so I figured I'd ask. I guess that's one of the main problems of the human brain, kind of the permanent semi-paranoid state.

We've got a lot of problems inherent to how we think and interact which makes me question the intelligence of such a design, although I guess it is effective if it was designed to keep us apart and mistrusting each other.