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Was i wrong to tell him?
To mention to my boyfriend that i was kind of nervous about him going out of state so close to my due date? He had a relative pass away and they are taking him home to be laid to rest. I get he needs to go but i just thought he should know that it makes me nervous to be alone. He doesn't know when hes going yet (it could be several more weeks) and he will be gone for about a week. I'm 33 weeks now. My doctor is watching our baby closely for growth and has said if he stops growing like my first son did he will take him early. I didn't tell him not to go because I know he feels he needs to and i understand. I just thought he'd be understanding of how i felt too but he got angry? Was i wrong?
4 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
No. You weren't wrong. You arn't telling him not to go. Your just expressing your feelings to him about being nervous and scared. He should be understanding of your feelings. You are pregnant, and your going through a lot. Your entitled to your feelings. He shouldn't get angry about that. most likely he got mad, because he felt like you were trying to guilt him into not going. obviously that's not what you were trying to do. but he might have seen it that way. perhaps try to sit him down and talk to him again about it. explain to him how you feel nicely. say that you understand he needs to go, but your just scared and want some comfort from him. If it was me, i would tell my husband how i felt no matter what. when your in a committed relationship, you should be able to talk open and honestly about your feelings.
- ookieLv 410 years ago
Maybe this is a time of confusion, because its a death of a relative and a giving birth of a child you know? Tough descision. You werent wrong, its just, wrong time for events to be happening.
- rajeevsaritaLv 610 years ago
No.
Not really.
If you can't talk to your boyfriend about your concerns then he is not really deserve boyfriend.
- Anonymous10 years ago
If you can't talk to your boyfriend about your concerns then he is no boyfriend.
