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What do you think of this situation?

A guy has a girlfriend. Although the relationship is not perfect, he believes she is the one for him. However, he has a close, female friend. So close, in fact, that they communicate literally up to 50 times a day and have sex whenever they see each other. He tells his friend things about himself of which his girl and family are completely unaware. The friend started seeing him for sex only and the friendship blossomed from there. The friend has tried to distance herself from him, afraid of the consequences of their actions for both but, he refuses to let go. He even decided they wouldn't have sex anymore if that's what was bothering the other woman, as long as he is able to communicate with her as openly and as often as he has been doing throughout their 'relationship'. What is going on here?!

Update:

Do you think the fact that he is willing to give up the sexual relationship makes a difference?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I would feel bad for his gf because hes actully cheating and thats f*cked up and that the other girl tryed to stop what they were doing and he said no is so messed up

  • Lisa
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    You're not going to like what I have to say, since I'm guessing you're the other woman. This guy is a douche. He is cheating on his girlfriend that he states is the one for him...if she was the one for him, why the heck is he so heavily involved with someone else? He's no prize. If the other woman were to get him exclusively, it's only a matter of time before he was doing the same thing to her. I know you think things will be different with you, but they won't be. He's a liar and a cheat. He doesn't deserve to be with anyone.

  • the first girl she is wasting her time and her life.

    this guy will never quit to his sexfrriend .

    so she has to stop this weird relationship in order to look for a guy who gives her peace and respect.

    Source(s): my own life.
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