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I'm so hurt and pissed...should i do this?
my husband got caught a week or so ago looking at the casual encounters section on craigslist and we had it out and he said it was just "funny" that he wasn't gunna do anything and didn't see the big deal so i just let it go if he promised not to do it again. Low and behold he looked at it yesterday and I found out and he denied it until he got so mad he threw me up against a wall and hurt me..he then calmed down adn admitted it and still doesn't see why it upsets me so much specially when he promises NOT to look at it nemore!! So to make him understand should I look it up on my phone and then justl leave it up so he can notice it and see what he does?? He says he wouldnt' care but i highly doubt that's the case
And as a side note he broke down and cried about hurting me and was really upset he had done that and was sorry. I don't even mind that as much as he's lying to me about looking at this stuff and not understanding it's wrong.
he didn't pin me he just pushed me aside basically but he doesn't realize his own strenght specially when he's all worked up and mad. Also he's never done that before but I kept pushing him because I was upset...we've tried to talk calmly about it and he just doesn't get it still
4 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
If he broke down crying for hurting you, I'm thinking eh really loves you. I would suggest talking calmly about it, and most importantl, don't change the subject to another issue during the conversation. I'm sure he only wants a daily chuckle from the ridiculous ideas people have, so you could search for some websites for him to visit like smartphowned.com.
- 10 years ago
YOU DONT EVEN MIND HIM HURTING YOU!!!!!!!!
You sound a very weak and timid women i feel very sorry for you. If anyone pinned me up against a wall and hurt me it would be bye bye. The violence bothers me more than whatever it was he was caught looking at (im assuming it was porn?)
All wife beaters are sorry afterwards and he will be sorry the next time he hurts you and the time after that aswell. PLEASE GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF AND TELL HIM TO LEAVE! if he wont the you get out ASAP.
- 10 years ago
It depends... do you want to stay in a relationship with someone who lies, because he's NOT going to stop hate to be a B**** but it's true. Don't get pregnant whatever you do!
If you don't want him to do this any more maybe you should think about staying somewhere else for a while. My personal opinion is if you know about this what else don't you know about?
