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Billie asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 10 years ago

Parking in front of my neighbors garage?

I've been living in my flat for 3 years now and have never had any problem with parking. The area which is allocated for parking is full of garages, and therefore i make a conscious effort not to block any garages or cars while parking, this has worked fine with all my neighbors so far.

A lady has just moved in in the block of flats next to me, and she has been squeezing her car down the side of my car in between my car and the garage. After the 2nd time of not being able to access my vehicle, i knocked at her flat and told her that her car will need to be moved as i need to get my son in his car chair when i leave for work in the morning. She told me that that was her garage and she was entitled to park in front of it, and that also that i was being inconsiderate not moving over enough to allow for her car when she returns from her day out. I explained that i have never been told that this garage was in use and as i have been parking here for 3 years i didn't think anything of it. I told her that what she was doing was rude, i would never dream of parking that close to someone's car, and that she should have put something on her garage to let the residents know she was using it and therefore not to park there.

She does not use the garage to store her car, only boxes etc, so as long as i am leaving enough space for her to easily access her garage, i'm not sure she has the right to park practically on top of my car? She is under the impression that she has the right to the parking space in front of her garage, is this right?

I was happy to move my car and call it quits until she demanded i move my car away from her garage, which i did with no fuss, because i'm unsure who is in the right here. But after her performance last night i want to equip myself with information for any future 'disagreements'.

Any help would be appreciated.

By the way the flats are all private and i assume the parking is also, it's just standard resident parking with no bays set out, just a 'park where there's a space' mentality.

Update:

Damn it, maybe i'm being a *****. I was just angry that she saw it as acceptable to stop me from being able to get into my car, with out any warning or notes, or knock on my door to ask me not to park there now she's living there. Maybe i should invest in some mind reading classes in case another neighbor wants me to somehow know that they want the space i have been using for years.

I think what she did was rude and uncalled for, unfortunately it just shows how far the world has come when you'd rather block your neighbor in than find out where they live and politely ask them not to park there any longer. The only reason i know what the problem is now is because i made the effort to find out, and maybe i did snap but it was the 2nd time i couldn't get in to my car and at the time i assumed she must have damaged my car getting out of hers because the gap was just to small to get out of.

I will ensure that i stay calm and polite next time but i don't think i was the only one in the wrong.

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  • 10 years ago
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    Just because you've been doing something for 3 years does not make it right. Until now it was not an issue, but now it is. If the space in front of the garage also belongs to the garage owner you will simply have to move. No one needs to inform you what they are going to do with their own space or maybe she just acquired the garage but either way it's hers to do with as she sees fit. As you don't have a garage you really don't have a space. You should ask your management where the most appropriate place for you to park is or see if you can acquire a garage that no one is using.

  • 5 years ago

    There's nothing you can really do about your neighbors parking in front of their garages as opposed to in them, that is their preference. The mailbox issue though, I'd be pissed to. I'd talk to the management office and inform them of the huge inconvenience this is to you, that you don't appreciate the lack of common sense and respect for patron residences. Write down the license plate number as well so they have something to work with. They'll have the vehicle owner informed and it'll be moved right away I'm sure. "Used car lot" I hate not being organized, or having to view such things on a daily basis, I agree totally. But that's the price we pay for renting. Good luck to you.

  • 10 years ago

    If it's her space, it's her right to use all of it. No matter how close she is to your car. No matter how much it inconveniences you. Unless the management requires her to park in her garage, then she is entitled to use it for storage and park in front of it.

    I expect she didn't react well to your tone. I take your tone as being very peremptory. ("her car will NEED to be moved....!!, and "I told her that what she was doing was rude..."). Most people don't like to have demands issued to them, or be scolded by someone who thinks that her way is the only way. And simply because you've been doing something for 3 years doesn't give you special rights. You pushed her, and so she pushed right back.

    There's a saying, "you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar..."

    If you would like a more specific legal response as to who has what rights, I'd suggest you contact the flat management. But I'd guess you are just going to need to find a work-around for your son and his car seat.

  • Miss 6
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Well to me she needs to make up her mind she is either going to store boxes in her space OR she is going to store her car. To me I think its asinine to think that its OK to park so closely to another car. That is just asking for dings and scratches on the cars. Also why would someone want to be bothered with having to move their car constantly just to move out of their neighbors way? Don't talk to her anymore go the building management SHOW them the issue and ask them how to solve this issue. Because this just sounds totally stupid to me.

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  • 10 years ago

    Never mess with a little old lady! Yes she lacked courtesy definitely it was a nasty thing to do. I would deal with the manager of the flats from now on and try to avoid her if this is private property of the flats . Im trying to visualize this but cant quite-you are in UK?

  • Ellie
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    Really, it's her right to park in front of her garage. You should leave it clear. But it is unfortunate you didn't know the garage was now in use, but you can't really blame her for that.

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